Prostate milking is the process of gently massaging the prostate gland with the goal of ‘milking’ the lucky male recipient’s semen. Many men who’ve experience prostate milking claim that it provides the most incredible orgasm they’ve every had. However, there are health benefits of prostate massages, including its ability to lessen chances for developing prostate cancer. Between the health benefits and the pleasure factor, let’s explore the method of prostate milking.
How to Massage the Prostate Gland Step by Step
While achieving the goal is easier with a partner, this can be a solo act with a bit of clever maneuvering. However, we’ll write this guide from a partner’s perspective, but the general steps are the same regardless.
Step #1: Get Prepared — It’s a good idea for the receiving male to have a bowel movement sometime recently prior to prostate milking, and if a finger will be used for the massage clipping the nails and cleaning the hands first are essential.
Step #2: Assume the Position — There are three primary positions the male can consider that are conducive for prostate milking: on his back spread eagle, doggy style or lying on his side (recommended for solo prostate massages).
Step #3: Lubricate — Whether using a prostate massaging toy or a finger, lubricate the insertion ‘tool’ and the anus generously.
Step #4: Go for the Glory — Gently insert the device or finger slowly into the rectum with a focus on the belly button side of his body. Once inside, feel for the prostate, which is about 2-3 inches in and feels like a squishy walnut.
Step #5: Massage Tips — Lightly massage around the prostate’s edges in a circular motion using the fingertip or device. Take care not to be ‘rough’ on the center of the prostate, as this is a super sensitive zone. Continue massaging, building up speed and pressure slowly until he ejaculates.
Walla! The recipient has just had the ultimate, mind-blowing orgasm.
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There tend to be quite a number of acronyms tossed around in the swinging lifestyle…ones that often confuse both novices and experienced swingers. Four such acronyms include: MMF, FFM, MFM and FMF. This isn’t surprising because most three letter acronyms seen in lifestyle ads are specific to a ‘type’ of partner being sought or one specifying their body type. MMF, FFM, MFM and FMF however, refer to gender preferences concerning a specific type of threesome. So, what’s the difference between the four? Here’s the lowdown.
MMF and FFM in the Swinging Lifestyle
MMF means ‘male, male, female’ and FFM means ‘female, female, male.’ These types of threesomes involve intimate engagement between the two same sex parties in the group in addition to the third participant. Hence, MMF would be two men getting it on with a female, while also tending to one another. The same is true for FFM—two females sharing one man while being intimate with each other, too. These types of threesomes are popular with bisexual swingers and those seeking to expand their boundaries or double their fun in playtime.
MFM and FMF and Swingers
These terms are the most common types of threesomes. MFM being two males and a female together, and MFM is often referred to as a “Devil’s Threesome.” FMF is often called ‘the good kind’ of threesome, being two females and a male. In these situations, there is generally no homosexual contact between the two parties of the same sex. However, threesome experiences can lead to unpredictable situations, and one never knows for certain where things may lead!
If you are unsure, look for the gender in the middle and they are who will be the object of your affections during a threesome. So, if you are not bi or bi curious, stay away from MMF and MFF threesomes. Now that you’re in the know, you can confidently choose a threesome style that fits your lifestyle experience. What are your favorite or most desired types of threesomes? Share with us on the SLS Forums.
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Finding swinger couples is not an easy task. As such, most couples make their connections online. Before couples decide to make their relationship physical, they go out on a first date, also called a meet and greet with the other couple or single, to ensure that there is chemistry. If you are new to the swingers lifestyle, you may be wondering where do couples go to meet other couples for a first date Meet & Greet.
Here are three popular choices. These first dates or meet and greets can take place in places like bars, coffee shops or even your local swing clubs.
When you are looking to meet up with a swinging couple for the first time, a bar is always a great choice. Some swinger group will host a monthly Meet & Greet at a local bar. There everyone can easily grab a drink or fast bar food while getting to know one another. Unlike a restaurant, you aren’t committed to sitting down and enjoying a long meal, which is perfect in case there is no chemistry.
Another place you can set a meet and greet with other lifestyle couples for the first time is at your local coffee shop. Coffee shops are easily accessible and tend to have long hours, making it a convenient choice for most people if you want to keep it super casual. Coffee shops also tend to be quieter than bars, allowing you to hear the other couple speak easier.
Local Swing Clubs
The last common place you can meet with other couples for the first time is at local swing clubs. Most swing clubs have sitting areas where individuals or couples can sit and chat before engaging in any sexual contact. This is a great place to meet up if you are ready to get down to business immediately after meeting, should there be a connection.
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Truly the most open of all lifestyle choices, pansexuality offers an opportunity to love without limits. Even though it is difficult to identify why we feel certain ways, or choose certain attributes as being most attractive, most of us still define our sexuality with clear rules and boundaries.
People choose among many common dichotomies, including: for men or women, gay or straight, black or white. Without knowing why, we choose certain kind of people, often by something as seemingly arbitrary as hair color.
History of Pansexuality
The concept of pansexuality goes back to Freud, and has changed over time. Originally tied to sex, the definition has grown to include gender identity and even gender expression. Most recently, a large number of millennial youth have identified as pansexuals, including some famous people. Most notably, Miley Cyrus who came out as pansexual in a 2016 Variety interview, where she explained that “bisexual” was too confining a term. She knew from a young age that she was most attracted to individuals who combined characteristics from both traditional sex stereotypes.
Who is Pansexual?
According to some researchers, women are five times as likely as men to identify as pansexual. Also more likely to identify as pansexual are young people who are not heterosexual, and individuals who have what society considers a nontraditional gender role or expression.
As more and more people identify with the concept, there is an attempt to define what pansexuality entails. Even some who identify as strictly gay or straight also identify as pansexual, stressing that the key to attraction is personality.
The bottom line is that we need to do what makes us happy. As long as we are living the kind of life which is mentally healthy and emotionally fulfilling, the need to follow arbitrary rules only leads to guilt and regret.
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Despite being more prevalent in pop culture, swinging still remains a mysterious lifestyle that seems more like fiction than reality to the average person. However, sex positive couples can benefit tremendously from the swinging lifestyle. From increased trust to a heightened sensual experience, swinging can be a great addition to a healthy and stable relationship. If you’re thinking about swinging and wish to discuss it with your partner, be sure to mention these top benefits of swinging for sex positive couples!
Heightened Trust and Pleasure
Swinging requires a lot of trust and honest conversation to work, and even the act of talking about swinging can tremendously enhance a relationship. Sex positive couples who embark on their journey in the lifestyle must get used to difficult and personal conversations, and this can even help to bring up deep-rooted fantasies to the surface. Along with a sense of heightened trust, partners can experience more pleasure together as they learn new techniques and positions from their partners. Together, this creates a well-rounded relationship that goes beyond what most monogamous couples will ever experience.
Safely Living Out Fantasies
Cheating is a natural urge yet remains one of the most harmful actions a person can make in a relationship. However, when sex positive couples choose to swing and follow their own guidelines, they can enjoy their sexual urges without harming the relationship or their partner’s trust. Of course, swinging partners must set and stick with their boundaries, and it’s still possible to cheat while swinging should one partner lie or go beyond the preset boundaries.
The Ultimate Freedom
Many monogamous partners often wonder what sex is like with other people, but they may not wish to jeopardize their relationship to experience it. This can create a common dilemma where one partner feels sexually unfulfilled and then brings this negativity into other aspects of the relationship. For couples in the lifestyle who enjoy casual sex outside of their relationship, both partners can be rest assured that there are no lingering feelings of “what if?” This creates a healthier sexual bond along with benefits for nearly all other aspects of the relationship.
Life is full of new experiences, and swinging allows sex positive couples to experience them all without problems. It provides the freedom of free-love while also cultivating the primary relationship through unique shared experiences and broadened horizons. Sex positive couples everywhere should have a deep conversation to see if swinging is right for them. If it’s not, that’s perfectly okay too. But for those ready to open a new door, swinging is sure to provide endless possibilities for pleasure and growth!
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Every swingers club is different, but all of them focus on providing a safe environment where you can freely explore your sexuality. If this is your first time at a swingers clubs, it’s important to research the local clubs in your area to find out the one that’s right for you.
Swingers clubs are open to couples and single females. Some clubs will allow single male on a specific night or accompanied by a couple. These clubs require that you become a member and pay an annual membership fee in addition to an entry fee. This helps weed out people from outside of the community who merely wish to watch and not engage, and it also helps to protect everyone in the club.
What to Expect in a Swingers Club
BDSM (Bondage – S&M or Sadism & Masochism) – Some clubs have a BDSM culture, while others will have it as a theme night. Bondage is a sexual fetish where restraints are used, sometimes a DOM or Dominatrix will administer discipline while other times there are
dungeons, people getting flogged, whipped, caned, spanked etc.
Closed Door Swinging – There are designated areas in an on premise swing club where the playrooms are located. These playrooms can be used for closed door swinging where couples can partake in sexual intercourse with other couples. This can include full swap or soft swap couples looking for privacy.
Double Penetration (DP) – This practice is where sexual partners are willing to engage in sexual intercourse, one in the vaginal cavity and another in the anal cavity at the same time. This can take place in a close door setting or in an open door setting if the couples don’t mind being watched.
Exhibitionism – Couples engage in sexual activity while others watch them for their own sexual pleasures.
Group Room – This is where the orgies happen. This is where the foursome and more-some happen.
Voyeurism – Couples watching others having sexual intercourse for their own pleasures.
Many people imagine swingers clubs as being extravagant orgies where you can fulfill every sexual desire without repercussions. While this can certainly happen, it’s best to enter the club with more realistic expectations. If you’re going with a partner, it’s likely that you’ll start the night off by yourselves before meeting others. Feel free to fool around with your partner, and if a couple you like makes a move, then you have easy access to a foursome or more.
Depending on the layout of the club, you may start off by relaxing on a couch that can seat two or more. If you continue to engage with more people, you may be able to move off to a more secluded area that features larger couches, beds, or even props. This may be a private room that you have to reserve, or it may be a free-for-all where anyone can join. Depending on the atmosphere, joining an orgy can be as easy as asking permission and getting in bed. It all Depends on your comfort zone and desires, you can expect anything from kissing multiple new partners to oral sex, handjobs, fondling, and sex.
Swingers clubs usually get more sexualized throughout the night, and they may turn into full-blown orgies if the chemistry is right and the ambiance encourages it. However, you’ll still have to make the same small-talk and introductions that you would at any other event. Luckily, everyone is at the club for the same reason as you, and that’s for having a fun and safe sexual adventure. So whether you’re going alone or with a partner, keep your expectations realistic, put on a friendly face, and allow the night to unfold naturally to have the best experience possible. Once you find the right swingers club, you’ll want to return for more!
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There’s a lot of controversy and misunderstanding when it comes to determining the difference between cuckolding and wife sharing. While the differences are only slight, there’s much enjoyment to be had with both practices. But, for argument’s sake, let’s explore these two types of sexual fun.
What is Cuckolding?
An ancient term, a cuckold historically is considered to be the wronged husband of an unfaithful wife. However, today the term generally refers to a sexual proclivity that both partners agree upon and participate in together, and the cuckold can be either male or female. A cuckold is one who finds watching their partner or spouse have intimate relations with another person—especially one better endowed than they are or of another race—to be erotically arousing.
The cuckolded individual is most often merely a voyeur, but they may also be participants in the act. Often, this involves the cuckold being ‘humiliated’ by their partner and/or the participating party by being ‘forced’ to watch or engage in acts with the non-partner. Of course, this masochistic humiliation is often part of what attracts many people to cuckolding to begin with, and is one reason it is often considered to be a subset of the BDSM lifestyle.
What is Wife Swapping?
Wife swapping is a form of swinging that typically involves married couples switching partners with other married couples. This can involve anywhere from two couples to several couples who willingly share their bodies with others in their ‘inner circle.’ Like cuckolding, this could involve partners watching one another, but these experiences typically lack any nuances of humiliation. However, there is the potential for bisexual encounters, semen tasting and other ‘deviances’ that one may find pleasure in during wife swapping.
The Benefits of These Alternative Lifestyles
Couples who wife swap or enjoy cuckolding often report having stronger connections with their partner or spouse, and certainly they say it spices up their relationship. These experiences can also be a great way to relax and escape the ‘normalities’ of daily life.
Amateur Cuckold – How to get into the Sexual Lifestyle
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There are a lot of myths and misinformation out there about the G spot and whether or not it exists. The G spot, named after Dr. Gräfenberg, the ob-gyn credited with discovering this spot in the 1980s, is definitely a real spot in the body and exists. However, there is a lot of misinformation because it is different in every woman. Here is some information you may want to know if you are questioning whether the G spot exists.
Its Location Varies in Women
One reason why people question whether the G spot exists or not is because it not a definable sexual organ. You can define a penis or vagina and these parts are easily identifiable and located in the same spot on men and women. The G spot is an area near the front vaginal wall that is made up of tissue matter. In many women, the area is sensitive and can begin to swell when they are turned on or when the area is touched or rubbed, just like the clitoris. However, the front vaginal wall is fairly long and the positioning of these tissues can vary in women. Some have a larger G spot, while others is smaller. For many women, the G spot is something that they stumble across, rather than locate. If you are trying to locate yours, get yourself turned on and then insert a finger or two into your vagina. Lightly feel around and rub. When you are rubbing on something that feels good, it may swell or enlarge. This is your G spot.
The Sensitivity Varies in Women
Another reason why people question whether the G spot exists or not is because it doesn’t have the same affect on all women. The sensitivity of a G spot can vary drastically from one woman to the next. In some women, it simply feels nice or good to have the G spot rubbed or touched. In other women, it can send them over the edge and result in orgasm. It is not realistic to think every women will reach orgasm through G spot stimulation. Some can, while some can’t. There is nothing wrong with you if you can and nothing wrong with if you cannot.
Sex, either with yourself or with a partner, should be something that you enjoy, not something that you stress out or worry about. Exploring different angles, positions and even using sex toys can help you figure out what feels best to you and what may lead you to orgasm. Instead of focusing on finding the G spot specifically, play around and learn what excites you and turns you on. If your G spot is sensitive, you will eventually find it, or find something else that feels just as good to you.
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There is more to sexuality than sex and one’s sexual orientation. Sexuality goes beyond the scope set by these two factors. It includes our gender identity (if we are male or female) and our gender roles which are the perceptions of how we should behave as either male or female. Sexuality is also defined by how we feel about our bodies, our ability to build healthy relationships, our sexual experiences and fantasies.
In recent times, the media, friends, family, and religion have formed the basis of defining sexuality. However, we can all agree that their definitions have not always been fair and are based on stereotypes. The true definition of one’s sexuality can only be made by the individual and how they choose to express their sexual affiliations to the public.
Defining your sexuality in an alternative lifestyle is a multidimensional approach. It involves transcending the boundaries set by society and expressing your sexual confidence in a different perspective without judgement. That is why a lot of people turn to alternative lifestyle websites. There they are able to connect with other like minded people and are free to express themselves without ridicule. The results could be amazing and could truly be the foundation of having healthy relationships.
On these sites, you are connected with a community of others who share common interests. The community participation widens your scope of interaction. Community participation activities which include discussions on forums and groups as well as face to face interactions at local meet and greets where you get to meet more people from these activities and engage more. These engagements will allow you to understand your attractions better that is which sex you are attracted to more and why. At this juncture, you can draw tentative conclusions regarding your sexuality, which will be instrumental in your future relationships.
Defining your sexuality is sometimes an uphill task; however, if you expose yourself to alternative scenarios it is possible to draw a conclusion on your sexuality.
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For people who identify as Bisexuals, that is, they have romantic or sexual attraction to both male and female, dating can sometimes be difficult. They tend to be in love with an individual based on attraction, personality, charter and chemistry and as oppose to gender. Because of this, they are sometimes seen as confused because they don’t necessarily have a sexual preference for one sex or another, which can hinder their prospects on regular dating websites. For bisexuals or bi-curious people, dating through an alternative lifestyle website may be a better option.
How do they find A Partner?
Some bisexuals have actually found others on swinger’s websites and the swinging lifestyle. This alternative lifestyle allows for bisexual singles or other bi-curious people to experience sexual fantasies without judgment. To get started, follow these simple steps:
- Create a free account on a swinger’s website like SwingLifestyle.com.
- Complete your profile by telling others about who you are, your interest levels and what you are looking for from the lifestyle.
- Don’t forget to upload a picture so others can see what you look like.
- Search for others that share similar interests.
- Connect with others through chat, emails, or other forms of online communication provided to you on the site.
- Search for parties and other events in your area that you can attend.
- Join the discussions through groups or other online forums.
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