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What’s the Difference Between Cuckolding and Wife Sharing?

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There’s a lot of controversy and misunderstanding when it comes to determining the difference between cuckolding and wife sharing. While the differences are only slight, there’s much enjoyment to be had with both practices. But, for argument’s sake, let’s explore these two types of sexual fun.

What is Cuckolding?

An ancient term, a cuckold historically is considered to be the wronged husband of an unfaithful wife. However, today the term generally refers to a sexual proclivity that both partners agree upon and participate in together, and the cuckold can be either male or female.  A cuckold is one who finds watching their partner or spouse have intimate relations with another person—especially one better endowed than they are or of another race—to be erotically arousing.

The cuckolded individual is most often merely a voyeur, but they may also be participants in the act. Often, this involves the cuckold being ‘humiliated’ by their partner and/or the participating party by being ‘forced’ to watch or engage in acts with the non-partner. Of course, this masochistic humiliation is often part of what attracts many people to cuckolding to begin with, and is one reason it is often considered to be a subset of the BDSM lifestyle.

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What is Wife Swapping?

Wife swapping is a form of swinging that typically involves married couples switching partners with other married couples. This can involve anywhere from two couples to several couples who willingly share their bodies with others in their ‘inner circle.’ Like cuckolding, this could involve partners watching one another, but these experiences typically lack any nuances of humiliation. However, there is the potential for bisexual encounters, semen tasting and other ‘deviances’ that one may find pleasure in during wife swapping.

The Benefits of These Alternative Lifestyles

Couples who wife swap or enjoy cuckolding often report having stronger connections with their partner or spouse, and certainly they say it spices up their relationship. These experiences can also be a great way to relax and escape the ‘normalities’ of daily life.

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Amateur Cuckold – How to get into the Sexual Lifestyle

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Before a couple decides to engage in this alternative lifestyle, they should understand what the concept means and what it entails. By definition a cuckold is a scenario where a wife (girlfriend) has sex with another man while her husband (boyfriend) watches. Although this lifestyle has never really surfaced out into the open like swingers, it is becoming more popular with every generation. Living the life of an amateur cuckold shouldn’t be too difficult, seeing as most men don’t really have a problem in regards to having intercourse with another Read More

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What is a G Spot and Does it Exist?

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There are a lot of myths and misinformation out there about the G spot and whether or not it exists. The G spot, named after Dr. Gräfenberg, the ob-gyn credited with discovering this spot in the 1980s, is definitely a real spot in the body and exists. However, there is a lot of misinformation because it is different in every woman. Here is some information you may want to know if you are questioning whether the G spot exists.

Its Location Varies in Women

One reason why people question whether the G spot exists or not is because it not a definable sexual organ. You can define a penis or vagina and these parts are easily identifiable and located in the same spot on men and women. The G spot is an area near the front vaginal wall that is made up of tissue matter. In many women, the area is sensitive and can begin to swell when they are turned on or when the area is touched or rubbed, just like the clitoris. However, the front vaginal wall is fairly long and the positioning of these tissues can vary in women. Some have a larger G spot, while others is smaller. For many women, the G spot is something that they stumble across, rather than locate. If you are trying to locate yours, get yourself turned on and then insert a finger or two into your vagina. Lightly feel around and rub. When you are rubbing on something that feels good, it may swell or enlarge. This is your G spot.

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The Sensitivity Varies in Women

Another reason why people question whether the G spot exists or not is because it doesn’t have the same affect on all women. The sensitivity of a G spot can vary drastically from one woman to the next. In some women, it simply feels nice or good to have the G spot rubbed or touched. In other women, it can send them over the edge and result in orgasm. It is not realistic to think every women will reach orgasm through G spot stimulation. Some can, while some can’t. There is nothing wrong with you if you can and nothing wrong with if you cannot.

Sex, either with yourself or with a partner, should be something that you enjoy, not something that you stress out or worry about. Exploring different angles, positions and even using sex toys can help you figure out what feels best to you and what may lead you to orgasm. Instead of focusing on finding the G spot specifically, play around and learn what excites you and turns you on. If your G spot is sensitive, you will eventually find it, or find something else that feels just as good to you.

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About Tantra: Best Advice For Tantric Sexual Activities

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THE 12 TYPES OF ORGASMS — WHAT THEY ARE & HOW TO HAVE THEM

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There have been several myths and facts about orgasms, the later not taken seriously. Everyone deserves a good orgasm every time they have sex. An orgasm, for a newbie can READ MORE

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Defining Your Sexuality in the Alternative Lifestyle

There is more to sexuality than sex and one’s sexual orientation. Sexuality goes beyond the scope set by these two factors. It includes our gender identity (if we are male or female) and our gender roles which are the perceptions of how we should behave as either male or female. Sexuality is also defined by how we feel about our bodies, our ability to build healthy relationships, our sexual experiences and fantasies.

In recent times, the media, friends, family, and religion have formed the basis of defining sexuality. However, we can all agree that their definitions have not always been fair and are based on stereotypes. The true definition of one’s sexuality can only be made by the individual and how they choose to express their sexual affiliations to the public.

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Defining your sexuality in an alternative lifestyle is a multidimensional approach. It involves transcending the boundaries set by society and expressing your sexual confidence in a different perspective without judgement. That is why a lot of people turn to alternative lifestyle websites. There they are able to connect with other like minded people and are free to express themselves without ridicule.  The results could be amazing and could truly be the foundation of having healthy relationships.

On these sites, you are connected with a community of others who share common interests. The community participation widens your scope of interaction. Community participation activities which include discussions on forums and groups as well as face to face interactions at local meet and greets where you get to meet more people from these activities and engage more. These engagements will allow  you to understand your attractions better that is which sex you are attracted to more and why. At this juncture, you can draw tentative conclusions regarding your sexuality, which will be instrumental in your future relationships.

Defining your sexuality is sometimes an uphill task; however, if you expose yourself to alternative scenarios it is possible to draw a conclusion on your sexuality.

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THE BIZARRE WORLD OF EXTREME CUCKOLDING

Want to learn about The Bizarre World of Extreme Cuckolding ? Extreme Cuckolding is one of the most bizarre kind of fetishes you will ever hear. Most people find it even difficult to believe that it exists in reality,…

THE BENEFITS OF LIFESTYLE SITES LIKE SLS

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SwingLifeStyle is an online community that allows people of the lifestyle to connect with others in a safe and secure environment. It is also a great place to find compatible partners for you to explore your sexuality. If you are active in the lifestyle and looking for an alternative relationship, Then SwingLifeStyle is the site for you. They are currently the number one lifestyle website in the US and offer a user-friendly website with a high success rate and features that facilitate those looking for sexual adventures. If you are   READ MORE

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Bisexual Dating In The Lifestyle

For people who identify as Bisexuals, that is, they have romantic or sexual attraction to both male and female, dating can sometimes be difficult. They tend to be in love with an individual based on attraction, personality, charter and chemistry and as oppose to gender. Because of this, they are sometimes seen as confused because they don’t necessarily have a sexual preference for one sex or another, which can hinder their prospects on regular dating websites. For bisexuals or bi-curious people, dating through an alternative lifestyle website may be a better option.

How do they find A Partner?

Some bisexuals have actually found others on swinger’s websites and the swinging lifestyle. This alternative lifestyle allows for bisexual singles or other bi-curious people to experience sexual fantasies without judgment. To get started, follow these simple steps:

  1. Create a free account on a swinger’s website like SwingLifestyle.com.
  2. Complete your profile by telling others about who you are, your interest levels and what you are looking for from the lifestyle.
  3. Don’t forget to upload a picture so others can see what you look like.
  4. Search for others that share similar interests.
  5. Connect with others through chat, emails, or other forms of online communication provided to you on the site.
  6. Search for parties and other events in your area that you can attend.
  7. Join the discussions through groups or other online forums.

The swinging lifestyle is an alternative lifestyle that can offer bisexuals an opportunity to connect with other like-minded people like you. Some people frown on people who identify as bisexuals because they may think they are promiscuous or untrustworthy, but the lifestyle is for all open minded people to connect and share their fantasy and experiences in a safe environment.

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BISEXUAL SWINGERS: WHAT IT REALLY MEANS TO BE BISEXUAL

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There are a lot of Bisexual Swingers in the lifestyle. Find out what it really means to be bisexual. Bisexual individuals are spread all over the world and live in all areas of the society. They are known for their attraction for people of both genders and they can be both, females and males. Along with the attraction, romantic feelings can be involved and the individual that a bisexual may be attracted to does not necessarily have to be heterosexual. While swingers can enjoy having sex with the members of   READ MORE

Swinger Stories To Enhance Your Swinging Experience

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A large number of swinger couples feel that their marital relationship has become much stronger after discovering the swinger lifestyle. For some people, exchanging spouses for sexual pleasure is inconceivable. Nevertheless, swinging is a lot more than sex and sexuality. It is a way of life which examines personal freedom, personal sensuality, in addition to new kinds of relationships. As early as 18th century, sensual and passionate swinger stories regarding distinguished swinger clubs had been common among the high society sectors. During those days, exclusive organizations and secret swinger groups had been accessible only for a very few select people.

Erotic swinger stories are not new. Swinger stories excite the senses by giving literary foreplay relating to the swinger lifestyle. Read about first time experiences, seductions, unexpected situations, threesomes, girl play, plus much more. Make new lifestyle companions simply by writing your own swinger testimonies and / or ‘forbidden’ fantasies. You never know when another swinger couple may want to make your dream come true. The heart and soul of becoming a swinger is to experience a brand new kind of sexuality. Ultimately, you’ll discover the wonderful world of the ‘full’ swinger experience to achieve your lifestyle change. Like most things in life, you ought not to force yourself on other people to adopt the life-style. You can personally delight in incredible true to life swinger stories if you chose to open your mind to the complete life-style experience.

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Swinger stories can certainly enhance your swinger experience. Choose a swinger site that uses swinger stories to generate new friends. Does the website have writing contests to display your sexual creativity and attract other swingers? Can you invite other swingers to join you in writing swinger stories together? Along with swinger stories, are there any useful lifestyle articles or blog posts? Some sites also have a place for you to produce adult video scripts. You can compose your own adult video scripts and then ask other people to join you in filming it. Swinger stories can be far more than reading enjoyment. It is important to locate a site that makes swinger stories part of the whole swinger experience.

If you are going to embrace the swinger lifestyle, there are very important points that you’ll want to take into account. For starters, swinging is premised on free will. No one can force you to do something that is against your will. This also holds true for your partner. In case your lover isn’t keen on starting the swinger experience, then don’t pressure them. Try out looking at or creating an erotic story with each other to arouse your lover’s interest. Talk about your favorite swinger stories and then consider the possibilities of making your own stories come true. Today, swinging has become a socially recognized practice with more and more people exploring its benefits. You can easily find swinger sites, networks for couples, and sensual parties nowadays. Therefore you have better opportunities now to uncover the amazing wonders within the swinger lifestyle.

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JOY THAT SWINGERS ENJOY FROM READING BONDAGE STORIES

Bondage StoriesBondage is a form of sexual pleasure where a partner is restrained from making movements by ropes. It is a way of making one of the partners achieve great pleasure while in sex. The act of binding one partner with ropes also make the other feel like he or she has total control over the other. It is an act that has been used in history to show transfer of power in submissive relationships. Before you start the bondage relationship you should know the benefits that people who practice  READ MORE

Enlightening And Educative Details About The Benefits Of Bondage (BDSM)

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Learn the Enlightening And Educative Details About The Benefits Of Bondage (BDSM). Bondage (BDSM) is becoming increasingly popular amongst many couples. This is mainly attributed to the fact that more couples are understanding its benefits. The couples who practice bondage are no longer termed to be immoral. Instead, they are nowadays considered to be daring and open minded. Here are some of the primary benefits of BDSM.

Enhances better communication

Couples who practice BDSM are able to communicate more effectively. Such couples are open with each other in different aspects of life for they know the sexual desires of each other. The couples are open to discussing almost anything for they have no secrets between them. This is an important aspect of any relationship because many relationships fail because there is no proper communication.

Increases intimacy

Practicing bondage is a perfect way of being sexually adventurous. Therefore, a couple that practices bondage increases intimacy consequently spicing the relationship. With bondage couples are able to move away from the monotonous ways of intimacy. These monotonous ways usually make the relationships boring for the couples get bored from doing the same thing over and over again. But with BDSM couples are able to experiment and such couples usually look forward to the intimate times.

Makes partners more faithful

Couples who practice bondage are more unlikely to cheat. This is mainly because bondage creates extra ordinary trust. When trust is improved the couples feel that they do not need to cheat for they are enjoying what they are getting from their partners. The couples usually do not have the courage to cheat for if they go to another person it will be hard to tell the person to practice BDSM. Furthermore, the partners feel obligated to stay faithful so as to encourage their partners to remain faithful.

Reduces anxiety

The couples who enjoy BDSM are also less likely to suffer from stress and anxiety. This is primarily because such couples feel that they are loved and as a result get more self esteem. With increased self esteem the couples are able to solve different issues in a more efficient manner. The fact that such couples share a lot of their issues plays a significant role in reducing stress. In addition the couples get to work out different issues together and this ensures the issues are solved fast.

Improves general health

BDSM is more demanding than ordinary ways of enjoying intimacy. As a result, the couples who practice bondage get to be more physical. This is an important aspect because being physical exercises the body and this can contribute even in weight loss. Therefore, the number of couples spicing their relationships through practicing bondage has been increasing steadily because more people are understanding the various benefits of bondage.

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Alpha males are preferred to have sex with and breed the wife in cuckolding

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Curious as to why a married woman wants to breed with an alpha male? In order to understand why a married woman would let an alpha male inseminate her, lets look at the characteristics of the alpha male. A man who has alpha male traits are those who can easily get what they want because of their confidence and also because of their good looks. Often, he is looked upon by his peers to solve problems and to act as a leader that they can follow. Keep in mind though that not all guys like this are admired and liked and here’s why:

Alpha males do not find a need to qualify themselves.

An alpha man is always certain of his actions, and so there is no need for him to explain himself. This is apparent in workplaces where they are expected to make tough decisions every day. They will no longer need to ask approval from anyone for the choices they make, and they won’t care a bit if you won’t consider their decisions. Keep in mind several men that have money and power are nothing but beta males who control women by money. It is a true alpha that breeds these women of these fake betas posing as alphas.

Alpha males also do not need to boast what they have achieved, even if most of these men has a lot of achievements in their life. People who admire they are surrounding most of these men, and they will not bother if none would appreciate them. Their accomplishments are not just some minor things because they are people with very real talents and are highly capable.

An alpha male takes his time when talking.

Alpha males are confident and do not hurry when they speak. He is sure that what he is saying makes sense, so he does not feel the need to talk fast for fear of losing anyone’s attention. This the most good alpha male traits, and that’s the reason why they are often surrounded by lovely girls who loves to listen to their every word.

An alpha male is the primary focus of attention, wherever he goes.

This kind of man does not take second place in anything whether it is in the boardroom, the charity ball or even the casual dinner with friends and family. Wherever they are, they always win the attention of anyone and the people that are around him. They maintain the high level of confidence in them, which a lot of individuals cannot resist, especially that they also have a lot of achievements in life.

A guy is an alpha male when he walks into a room confidently and without looking around. This kind of character of an Alpha male just proves that he does not need to look for someone to know that he is being considered. For him, this is only natural, and he does not feel the need to act like anyone other than himself because being himself has always served him very well.

Becoming a man with alpha male traits can be achieved through several practices and by being positive at all times. Not everyone will like you for it, but it will certainly get you most of the things you want in life especially when it comes to your career and your personal life. Balance it up with a kind heart and a sincere desire to help others, and you should be on your way to great success.

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Swinging, Divorce And Marriage Counseling.

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Swinging relationship has become popular now among couples who are bored and would like to explore. Through explore, that means that they need to try out other people when it comes to sexual relations. Peculiar as that may be, but there are an increasing number of men and women who have come to take this kind of idea given that they want to feel again the thrill, experience, and passion they once had early in their relationships.

Before choosing swinging, there should be a few things that you should consider. In the end, it may become better or worse for husbands and wives later on in their marriage.

First, couples should ask themselves first “Do we need to go to marriage counseling?”. Many couples are actually in denial that their marriage needs some tuning up or else item, Therefore, swinging has become a modern approach to some. If perhaps sexual activity is the problem, then talking about it with the other person even with the occurrence of a marriage counselor might bring about what the trouble is. Perhaps with a mediator, problems can be solved with suggested alternatives how to spice up one’s intimate relationships with each other. Believe it or not marriage counselors are not against swinging relationships.

Although swinging may be an easy way out for many people as well who are having problems with their sex lives, it might spell disaster. It is because with swinging, although individuals who engage in it might say that jealousy can never be out of the picture, it is just purely physical with another person and that there are no strings attached, there is still the weak part of human nature that will succumb to jealousy. A marriage must be strong in order to start swinging. Even some animals who are very territorial get jealous like that of Jaguars who only have one partner in their entire lifetime. And as they say, jealousy kills. Jealousy, after all, is a powerful force that sends a person into a fit of rage.

And before thinking about heading into a swinging relationship, one must consider not the particular benefits but also the repercussions of doing so. Because rather than solving the problem, it may aggravate things even more. Again your marriage must be solid in order to swing.

Sharing couples have a very loving and trusting relationship. They enjoy a satisfying sex life with each other and usually spend quality and quantity of time with each other and their families. They enjoy each other’s company and they sincerely “like” each other. They take care of each other’s needs and wants. They respect each other. The best part is; They TRUST each other completely.  So, before you swing make sure your ducks are in a row and have a stable relationship first.

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Why a Hotwife Is the Best Wife To Have

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Learn why a Hotwife Is the Best Wife To Have. Odd as it might appear the hotwife benefits you’ll experience when you can get your wife to take the plunge into the cuckolding lifestyle very good outweigh the potential risks and disadvantages (with one proviso: hotwifing is good for couples whose marriage is good however they want to improve it; if your relationship is already sexless and destroyed, then hotwifing can make things a lot worse).

Hotwifing Benefits

Your lady will bloom.

This is a hard one to clarify and depict, however a simple one to spot. Ladies love to be discovered appealing; what’s more, they want to be the lady of a solid and certain man. What’s more, by being a hotwife, she’s defeating both universes – her significant others manufacture her self-regard since they locate her appealing (you “have” to in light of the fact that you’re her better half, right?); and clearly you should be a solid and sure man to release her out and spread her wings, as it were. You’ll see how she turns out to be more mindful of herself, all the more sexually brave, and begins to take significantly more pride in her appearance.

Your self-esteem will skyrocket.

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Once more, this is an extreme one to clarify however is something each man I know whose spouses go down the horrifying way. For a certain something, you turn out to be much more glad for your better half as she starts to sprout and your sentiments of adoration and commitment for her expansion. It’s peculiar, yet despite the fact that most hotwives spouses have their wives’ authorization to lay down with other ladies, few do. Why? Since for man a significant part of the joy is in observing his better half making the most of her own pleasure (and by this I don’t simply mean watching her with another man – I mean simply observing her doing through life as a recently mindful and freed lady)..

She enables you to listen

A typical scenario here is, say, she brings her new lover home and needs him to the marital foundation while departing her man in another bedroom (or vice versa, where she can take her fan to the free room and leaves hubby only in the marital bed).

The idea here is he can notice everything that’s happening but is not present. The benefit for his partner here’s she can relax and let herself go, as well as perhaps almost forget her husband is there, or at least out it out of her brain.

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Convincing Your Wife to be a Hotwife

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Learn how to convince your wife to be a hotwife. While many men would love their wives to be hotwives, there’s an important piece of the puzzle missing — the piece that tells them how to get from here to there. And it’s not a trivial question because most men instinctively know their wives will not react positively to something like, “why don’t you sleep with other guys and let me watch?”. Which is something of a shame because it’s such a common fantasy. So…

How to Make Your Wife a Hotwife

The first thing is to realize you cannot make her do it against her will. That kind of promise of mind-control is the stuff of fantasies and simply isn’t true. Yes, there are some very suggestible people out there, and we’ve all seen them being persuaded to do silly things on the TV, but the thing to understand is they are very few and far between… and that means it’s highly unlikely your wife is one of them.

In any case, since I hope you want your wife to become a hotwife because you love her and you want to improve your relationship, both in physical and emotional terms, it would be counterproductive to manipulate her into doing something, would it not?

So, the answer is… to get her to convince herself to become a hotwife. And the way to do that is to tune into her favorite channel… the What’s in It for ME? show.

See, most men approach making their wives into hotwives from entirely the wrong direction — they make it all about the hot, steamy sex and what it will do for them. When they need to be thinking of putting the message over regarding improving the relationship and how it will benefit their wives as well. Apart from anything else you do NOT want your wife sleeping with other men just for your pleasure — that might seem like it’s working in the short term, but, believe me, it’s going to blow up in your face quite spectacularly.

To make hotwifing work she really has got to want to do it; more than that, she’s got to enjoy doing it and that’s something YOU might find hard to handle, especially if you’re present, and you’re watching her making love with another man with no inhibitions and showing a passion and sexual abandon she’s not shown with you for a long time (so be sure you really want to do this before you start putting the idea in her head).

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