Monogamous couples repeatedly say swinging is bad. Here are 3 reasons swinging is not taboo. The swinger lifestyle isn’t exactly the “in” thing to do. In fact, in most social circles, it’s taboo.
However, most of your our opinions about swingers come from other people. They tell us what we should believe, which is often negative. And yet, most of these people who are telling you about swingers haven’t exactly tried the lifestyle. The swinging lifestyle does offer plenty of benefits to a couple. Curious? Well, let’s enumerate a few of these advantages.
Opens The Line Of Sexual Communications
For some couples, they do the “act”, but they rarely talk about it. This isn’t exactly healthy. In a healthy relationship, you must be able to communicate your desires to your partner without fear of being judged. Also, you must feel secure talking about these kinds of subjects to your partner. The swinger lifestyle can help you with this.
If you are in a group that largely revolves around the idea of sexual experience, sexual communications naturally open up for you and your partner. All of sudden, you will realize that sex is just another topic that you discuss with your partner. And when this line of communication opens, you will enter a whole new world with your relationship.
Human beings are naturally curious. Some are more sexually curious than others. While some people are perfectly fine with a single sexual partner, some other people feel restricted. This feeling of being restriction can then bleed to other areas of the relationship. If you and your partner feel the same about this, then the swinging maybe a good experience for the both of you.
Engaging in a sexual experience does not mean that you will be running away with someone else. Love and sex are not exactly the same. You can have sex with someone else, and still be deeply in love with your partner. The swinging lifestyle can benefit you and your partner’s need to satisfy that curiosity and still feel secure in a relationship.
Spicing Up The Life
Being in a relationship can be comforting as it brings a sense of security and comfort. On the downside, there is a tendency for things to get boring. Of course, some couple loves this “familiarity” and there is nothing wrong with that. However, for some couples, this “boringness” may be too much to bear. The swinger lifestyle can be a big help.
For some couple, the swinger lifestyle is that variety they need to spice up their lives. Once the couples feel that excitement and thrill, it can easily affect other areas of the couple’s life. You can say that for some couples, it’s that “re-igniting the flame” that they are looking for.
This article is the first to admit that the swinging lifestyle is not for every couple out there. Some couples are perfectly fine with the way things are. However, for some couples that are trying to find ways to open the lines of sexual communications, safely explore other sexual experience and/or looking for ways to re-ignite their passion, then swinging lifestyle may be the perfect solution.