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Swingers Lifestyle Vacations Couples Should Explore

From clothing optional resorts to embarking on the high seas, there are many ways travelers with an open mind can have a good time on their next vacation. Check out some of the hottest and sexiest upcoming lifestyle options available for couples interested in swingers vacations or a lifestyle cruise.

Get Tempted at Allures Tropical SEXcapade in Costa Rica

Snag a last minute booking for a Costa Rica excursion through Topless Travel at one of the best boutique swingers resorts in South America. There are 20 luxurious guest accommodations at this all-inclusive destination, and guests receive meals, drinks and entertainment at no additional costs.

Take a soak in the pool or get cozy with your partner or a new one in the waterfall cave. The grounds are filled with colorful birds, lush vegetation, sloths, anteaters and native monkeys. The next SEXcapade at this clothing-optional resort operates from May 27 – June 3, 2023.

Hedonism My Frisky Business Resort Trip

From July 29 through August 5, 2023, get frisky at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica at this special gathering. Feel the freedom of exploring erotic taboos and giving in to temptation with a week of devilishly naughty activities with nudists and lifestyle enthusiasts.

While most attendees are routine guests on swingers vacations, they are some of the best people for making newbies feel welcome and helping them integrate into the scene. Between the live entertainment, music and dancing along with sexy scenery and delicious food, you’ll be a hedonist in a slice of heaven!

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Get Wild on an East African Safari Adventure

Have a unique couples only experience in the heart of Kenya in the Great Rift Valley and Masai Mara region from September 6 – 13, 2024. Led by Lioness and her Cubs from Topless Travel, guests will stay at the Governors Camp, where the best wildlife viewing in the Reserve is located on the banks of the river. This location is where many of the top animal documentaries are filmed, so you can expect the unexpected here.

Between gatherings and playing with each other and new friends, guides will take you to meet the vibrant Masai tribespeople that love dancing, singing and entertaining guests. Guests will lodge in oversized luxury tents, replete with a bathroom and posh linens and bedding.

Take a Swingers Cruise to the Western Caribbean on the Celebrity Equinox

Blue skies and crystal clear waters await passengers on the Celebrity Equinox Cruise that is coming up on November 05 – 11, 2023. As one of the most popular swingers cruise options, you’ll want to book this trip now! After departing from Fort Lauderdale, you’ll have access to tons of like-minded people, activities and clothing-optional pool and deck events.

Once landing at ports in Labadee and Cozumel, tours will be available along with exquisite food, shows, after-dinner drinks and sensual parties. Get on board for some late-night playtime fun on this Caribbean adventure!

From first timers to experienced swingers, any of these spectacular travel opportunities are sure to be a memorable time. Get wild, or be more tame while exploring lifestyle vacations—the choice is yours!
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THE BENEFITS OF LIFESTYLE SITES LIKE SLS

SwingLifeStyle is an online community that allows people of the lifestyle to connect with others in a safe and secure environment. It is also a great place to find compatible partners for you to explore your sexuality. If you are active in the lifestyle and looking for an alternative relationship, Then SwingLifeStyle is the site for you. They are currently the number one lifestyle website in the US and offer a user-friendly website with a high success rate and features that facilitate those looking for sexual adventures. If you are READ MORE

SWINGERS CRUISES: A GUIDE FOR FIRST TIMERS

Lifestyle cruises can be a remarkable experience for swingers and voyeurs alike. However, if you’ve never partaken in a swingers vacation of any type, taking a cruise might seem daunting. Fortunately, this short guide for first timers will help you…

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Three Key Things You Can Learn at a Lifestyle Vacation Retreat

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Swinger Couples Meet & Greet – First Dates

Finding swinger couples is not an easy task. As such, most couples make their connections online. Before couples decide to make their relationship physical, they go out on a first date, also called a meet and greet with the other couple or single, to ensure that there is chemistry. If you are new to the swingers lifestyle, you may be wondering where do couples go to meet other couples for a first date Meet & Greet.

Here are three popular choices. These first dates or meet and greets can take place in places like bars, coffee shops or even your local swing clubs.

Bars

When you are looking to meet up with a swinging couple for the first time, a bar is always a great choice. Some swinger group will host a monthly Meet & Greet at a local bar. There everyone can easily grab a drink or fast bar food while getting to know one another. Unlike a restaurant, you aren’t committed to sitting down and enjoying a long meal, which is perfect in case there is no chemistry.

Coffee Shops

Another place you can set a meet and greet with other lifestyle couples for the first time is at your local coffee shop. Coffee shops are easily accessible and tend to have long hours, making it a convenient choice for most people if you want to keep it super casual. Coffee shops also tend to be quieter than bars, allowing you to hear the other couple speak easier.

Local Swing Clubs

The last common place you can meet with other couples for the first time is at local swing clubs. Most swing clubs have sitting areas where individuals or couples can sit and chat before engaging in any sexual contact. This is a great place to meet up if you are ready to get down to business immediately after meeting, should there be a connection.

If you are turning to the Internet to find other lifestyle couples, you need to be safe. Meeting up with the other couple in a public place before meeting them in a private setting helps to ensure everyone is comfortable, gets along and that the other couple is who they say they are.

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GOING TO A SWINGER’S CLUB VS. VISITING SWINGER WEBSITES

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Whether you are a swinger, nudists, voyeur or an exhibitionists, you know that there’s a need to meet other like minded people involved in the lifestyle. So, the question on everyone’s mind is: Do you go to a hot swingers…

HOW TO FIND GROUP SEX AND GANGBANG PARTIES

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Tips for New Swingers Attending Swinger Parties

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Most swingers have different experiences when they visit a swinger party or a swinger club. Some of them find it difficult to befriend other swinger couples in an on premise …

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Organizing A Gang Bang For Your Wife

Maintaining a strong marriage or relationship for a long time can be pretty difficult especially in bed. Let’s face it, having sex with the same partner can be quite boring especially if you are not inventive. There are lots of sexual fantasies that could be actually realized for a better bond and relationship. If you have been thinking of ways to spice up your sex life for your wife, then considering a gang bang could be perfect.

What is a gang bang?

A  gang bang is basically having sex with multiple people at the same time. It could be a man having sex with many women or a woman being pleased by many men. The latter is the most common type of gang bang for obvious reasons. Organizing a gang bang for your wife can be good for your marriage, but should be carefully planned. You don’t want to break up with her for sexual molestation. Some ladies could even sue you for rape. It is thus advisable to carry out a research and study your wife before letting dudes have her as you watch. Successful planning could see you and your wife enjoy a few benefits.

Increased sexual satisfaction

Many men may not admit it, but being at your best in bed always can be quite tiring especially when you’ve been together for a long time. By letting other men please your wife once in awhile, she will be able to get the needed satisfaction. Don’t forget how satisfying sex could be important to her wealth. Sex normally helps refresh the mind by releasing stress. A perfectly working and stress free body guarantees better performance.

Adventure

Studies show that more than half the women in the world have not experienced an orgasm. Many fake to please their partners who mostly ejaculate within minutes. By letting men take turns fucking her, she will have all the time needed to experience multiple orgasms ever. Sex scientists opine that a woman will find it easier to experience orgasm after the first occasion. After the gang bang, it will even be easier for you to make her climax. Having extra help through a gang could even help you learn a few tricks from other men too.

Improves honesty in the relationship

Finally, Sexual matters spark jealous. But, if a man is willing to keep the jealousy aside and let her experience some nice sex, then that will be the greatest gift of loyalty and honesty ever given. A gang bang seems brutal and rude, but it could open up your sexual life to amazing levels. Don’t be surprised if she brings her lady friend for a threesome with you. She may even feel free to discuss anal sex, blowjobs and sex styles with you. Carefully try it out and see. The best way for an immediate gang bang is to join Swinglifestyle. Swinglifestyle is the largest swinger site catering to alternative lifestyles, gang bangs etc.

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Why Swinging Is the Go to Lifestyle for A Relationship Nowadays

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Every year divorce rates continue to soar, however those divorce rates are lower and somewhat non existent in swinger relationships.

Learn why Swinging is the go to lifestyle for a relationship nowadays, and it is increasingly growing in popularity all over. It definitely might be quite a bizarre lifestyle for some, indeed, but it has grown to be a popular practice among dating couples, and married ones alike. If you are new to the term “swinging”, let’s dial back a bit to completely grasp the concept here. Swinging is a crazy type of lifestyle where couples, normally referred to as swingers, are involved in an open relationship, allowing each other to have the freedom to sexually interact with other people outside their relationship, but only with the consent of the main partner. True, it is an unorthodox way to run a relationship, but if you are willing to follow the outlined rules, you can get involved in it. For that alone, having sexual interactions with different people with your partner’s consent, swinging has gained much popularity, and with that, a lot of benefits are tied to this new lifestyle.

The thrill of getting involved sexually with numerous partners outside your relationship itself tells it all, more so if the satisfaction that your main partner offers you isn’t enough, and someone else can readily give the satisfaction that you need and seek. Swinging, however, is ideal for those partners and couples who have built up a lot of trust between them, and in the long run they wouldn’t have an issue whatsoever, with the other getting involved with other mates. Be that as it may, it doesn’t at all limit the sex of the other mate, therefore, one can be involved with any mate of any sex one desires. More often than not, in this swinging game, couples may choose to find other couples, with whom to get involved with sexually, if at all both of the two, husband or wife, gets tired with the other, and still requires a bit of excitement and frisky feeling.

Before couples get into it, however, a lot of communication and discussions are involved in order to formulate the rules that work for them both, along with a clear definition of what their life together will look like. Additionally, proper planning is done accordingly in order to play along well.

Additional benefits include, creation of friendships outside the relationship, which double as sexual relationships that remain spiced up in the bedroom, and sexual excitement via role playing with various couples. Eventually, swinging is a way to get your ego boosted, self-esteem and mood raised, and leads to longer relationships since pressure is significantly reduced in the bedroom. Ideally, if you have a little problem being faithful, this is the sort of thing you need, while maintaining close ties with family, and most importantly, relationship with your partner.

As long as you remain honest, respectful to your partner, use protection, remain acknowledged of your STD status, and be precisely mindful of the mate you are to roll with, swinging is just the thing for you.
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Why Monogamous Couples Are Embracing Swinging

monogamy swingingCurious to see Why Monogamous Couples Are Embracing Swinging? Swinging is a term that is used to refer to the practice of engaging in polygamous activities where one has other sexual partners other than the partner they are married to. Most couples these days are having more than one sexual partner. There are many reasons that most of them have put forward as to why they are swinging. One of them stems from trying to rekindle the sparkle of excitement that usually seems to die when people have been married for some time.

Monogamous couples have also started embracing this trend. Most of them think that swinging is a great way of bringing back that thrill in a relationship. These days, swinging is not only limited to the male partners, women are also actively engaging in swinging just as their male counterparts. More and more monogamous couples are seemingly accepting the swinging lifestyle and making it part of their own.

As opposed to what most people think, swinging is not for the struggling couples. As a matter of fact, it is for those couples that have strongly established their love and are even willing to let their partners have some sexual experience beyond their marriage boundaries. For the monogamous couples that are practicing the swinging lifestyle, it means that they love and trust each other to the extent that they are even allowing to have some sexual experience with other partners.

It means that their marriage life is so strongly established that there is no room for insecurity or fear of dishonesty. The good thing about the swinging lifestyle is that it helps solve the issue infidelity. Instead of a partner having extramarital affairs behind their partners back, they are granted the permission to do so. This has in a way helped partners open up to each other about how they feel and why they would want to try out swinging.

Swinging is a big decision for any couple. This is because it might change how the two relate to each other forever. It is therefore very important for any monogamous couple that is thinking about trying it out to have a lengthy discussion. This will help resolve the issues that either of them may have. By agreeing to try it, they will be ready for any consequences that might arise.

Swinging is not for couples that are just bored with their sexual life, it is for those that have mastered their sexuality and totally fulfilled the needs of each other to the extent that they feel they may want to share their sexual experience with other like-minded couples. Again the marriage should at all times come first before the swinging lifestyle.

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How a Relationship Will Improve With Swinging

swinging relationshipThere are many ways you will improve your relationship after you start swinging. First, you need to discuss and agree with your partner before you start swinging. If you are the one with the idea, then you should start by explaining to your partner the benefits you will enjoy after you decide to get involved in swinging. You can carry out enough research so that you will know the benefits of swinging. In a swinging relationship, you will be free to go out and interact with other people without any restrictions. You can even get involved in sexual adventures with other people without fearing what your partner will feel. It is a relationship practiced by open minded people.

How your relationship will benefit from swinging: 

You will reduce cases of divorce

In most cases divorce will be necessitated by infidelity. You will not be exposed to infidelity after you decide to get involved in swinging. You will get sexual satisfaction from other people without the consent of your partner. This will avoid cases where you will feel betrayed by your lover which can lead to divorce. You will go out and interact with other people without fear of divorce because your partner will be fully aware of your relationship.

It is easy to explore more sex positions

There are some sex adventures such as double penetration which you cannot experience if you are in a monogamous relationship. In a swinger party you can decide to practice threesomes or even foursomes. This will make you experience the adventures involved in group sex. If you have been hearing stories of how other people enjoyed the adventures, you will explore them on you own after you decide to become a swinger. Your relationship will never be boring again after you decide to engage in the group sex adventures.

Swinging leads to more satisfaction in a relationship

If one of you has less sex drive, it is very easy for her to be satisfied in a swinging relationship. This is simply because you can invite another member to your relationship who has high sex drive to help the one who has low sex drive to satisfy the other. This will lead you to enjoying your relationship because each of you will feel satisfied in your relationship. If you will like to explore more adventures in sex, it will be very easy because after you involve other people you will easily share your experience which will lead you to achieving more satisfaction.

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4 Reasons Why Swinging Is For You

group sex swingersAre you thinking or planning to enter into the swinging lifestyle? Many years ago, swinging was considered a taboo and many swinger had to do their things in secret because of fear of being victimized and judged by the society. However, nowadays things have changed and many people are embracing swinging lifestyle. In this article, we are going to focus on swinging lifestyle and how you will benefit if you make that important decision of becoming a swinger.

  1. It helps to improve your sexual techniques

Swinger’s lifestyle involve having sex with multiple partners but at the same time being faithful and committed to your partner. When you get to have sexual intercourse with other partners, you will get to learn new bedroom techniques which you can transfer to your own bedroom thus enabling you and your partner to enjoy sex more. Couples who have a happier sex life are usually happy as compared to those who don’t spice their bedroom life.

  1. You will appreciate each other more 

By the fact that you will see your partner having sex with another partner, you will be able to appreciate each other more, a factor that will draw you closer to each other. You will also learn to appreciate other people regardless of their sexual orientation or race. You will appreciate each other more, when you notice that other men or women desire your partner as much as you do. You will also learn to appreciate that fact that people have variety of body types, shapes and sizes.

  1. You will be able to make new friends

Swingers lifestyle involve meeting with different types of people, bonding together, expressing sexual desires and feelings and having a good time. As a swinger, you will be able to make a lot of long time friends who will always have your back when you need help. Having many friends also means having a more interesting lifestyle. You will have more fun with people who understand you and share the same interests and passion.

  1. You will learn how to trust your partner. 

Partners who are swingers have a very strong bond because each partner has the freedom to express his/her sexually without having to cheat or lie. You will learn to trust your partner because you know that he/she is genuine and sincere. You will not have to worry about your partner cheating on you because you are very open to each other.

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Great Tips for an Amazing Gallery on Swinger Sites

swinging traitsWhen viewing an online profile at a swinger dating site, you can view actual photos of the person the profile belongs to. This helps the person viewing the profile immensely because the person viewing the profile can see if they are attracted to the person or not. Here are some tips on creating an amazing photo album profile on a swinger’s website:

1. It is always better to have a few pictures than less. This gives you a chance to get more appealing feedback from your viewers.

2. Don’t be afraid to be recognized by someone you know. Only paid members have access to your album and even when someone you know sees your picture, they probably have the same motive as you.

3. It is possible to find local swingers in your area. Just send them a private message to discuss it further. Don’t make it an open invitation to everyone as you may risk having someone that you don’t know. Use a private chat room to ensure a fantastic swinger’s party.

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4. If you do decide to include nude pictures, make sure that you look great and charming. Don’t just take picture with your genitals exposed – at least get into a pose or take the picture in an artful manner. You can get inspirations and excellent naked poses from nude photography sites, books, lifestyle magazines and erotic websites.

5. You should be consistent on how you look on your profile photo gallery and how you dress up when meeting a swinger who wants to hook up. When your profile picture shows you at your best, wearing great clothes for a night out on the town or club, then you should also be in your best attire when your date sees you.

6. Most members on swinger dating sites try to post their profile photo that says a lot about them. They also love to post pictures that show who they are, and what they love doing. A good photo of a swinger traveling to different countries, one that shows them playing their favorite sport or a picture that shows them rocking out at a live concert effectively tells the viewers an idea of what to expect.

7. Don’t use Photoshop or any other image-enhancing software because it will become obvious when your date sees you. Post pictures that show the natural you.

8. Couple swingers should add in profile photos of both of them as much as possible. It would send the wrong signal if only one person is on the picture, when in reality the two of you are looking to meet fellow swingers.

How to Host Your Own Swingers Party

How to Host Your Own Swingers PartyNowadays many swingers have resorted to hosting their own swinger parties at their homes. This normally happens after they have known each other for a while over a swingers’ social platform like Swinglifestyle (SLS).

Having a swinger party at home is a great idea. It will give you an opportunity of interacting with other swingers in the privacy of your own home. This will enable you to enjoy great swinging activities while enjoying great fun at home. Just like any other party, a swinger party will require prior preparation for you to make it stand out.

Here are some of the tips you need to apply to make your swingers party preparation successful:

  1. Pre-Party Cleaning.

Swingers will use different rooms in your home. Make sure all areas designed to swinger activities are clean. This will require some time, so set time aside and carry out the cleaning job before the real day. You should ensure the bathroom is clean with clean towels and rags available for your guests. The bedrooms should be thoroughly cleaned. Make sure the bed linens are all clean and fresh. If you have a pool and hot tub area that will be open to your guests, make sure that is clean as well. Hot tub is a preferred area for swinging adventures. Some swingers will prefer using condoms, so make sure you have them strategically placed throughout your home.

    1. Food and Drink

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For a swinger party, it’s nice to have finger foods. Unlike a normal party where you will have to prepare a full meal, at a swinger party, you can have small snacks available for your guests. It’s nice to have something handy so your guests can eat after they have been exhausted to replenish the energy that they may have lost during their sexual adventure. There are those who will like to have alcohol. I find that a BYOB type of event works well for swingers house parties. That way, everyone will be satisfied and you won’t have to worry about having drinks to suit everyone’s need. Make sure to arrange a bar in your home with mixers, cups and ice that they can use to enjoy their drinks.

  1. Get Things rolling with some fun Games

At first, the party may have some tensions. Not all guest know and are comfortable with each other. This may be your first swinger house party in a residential area and you may be a little nervous from it all. Break the ice and let people get excited. You can use games to cheer them up. Some of the games that you can use include spin the bottle, strip twister and others. Once the guest becomes engage in the games, they will get used to each other and make it easy for them to engage in other swinger related activities.

  1. Room Assignment

How to Host Your Own Swingers PartyFor your party to stand out, you need to assign each room a certain function. There should be specific rooms where the swingers can go and enjoy privacy while others will be used for socializing. This will require you to have a big house so that the party will be successfully. Rooms used for taking baths should be marked, in case you have a single bathroom, you should let the guests know prior to starting the party because there are others who will prefer taking their adventures to the bathroom which can hinder others from using it.

 

Clothes for a Swinger Wife

Clothes for a Hotwife    Clothing adds to the true definition of a beautiful woman. She uses it to display the fashionable aspect of her inner ability to select fashionable clothes. Most swinger wives enjoy dressing in theme and attending a swinger party. It gives them a chance to show their character through dressing up. Fashion is critical to some woman’s perspective as women tend to care much about the opinion made on their style of dress unlike most men.

Society tends to explore the dressing of a woman in particular manner. There are the conservative in nature types and the radical or updated women. Woman are expected to portray a good conduct of her manners and behavior before others. Men depend on women to make the right decision in terms of clothing choices. There are protocols to be followed in the specific environment, you wouldn’t wear a short leather mini skirt to the office, but that would be perfect for a night at the swingers club.

Women prefer to look pretty and decent at the same time, dressing based on individual comfort, the shape of a woman’s body may determines much of what she is going to wear. Comfort ability in dressing is important to some women, there are those who choose to cover their whole body while others will show case their skin.

swinger-wife2One of the best ways for a man to appreciate women is to observe their clothing. The great gift that a man can offer a woman is a sexy piece of lingerie which can add a bit of spice to their sex life. This should be understood by men who prefer their women to wear certain clothes. Women will wear what they feel comfortable in, but it’s a nice gesture to buy her a piece of clothing you both will enjoy. The naughty school girl outfit, or the nurse or maid uniforms would be a great addition for night you guys feel like role playing or visiting the swinger club.

This fact is based on the pattern and design of the clothing worn by an individual. Fashion is a domino for everyone interested in perfecting the act of dressing. Dresses are worn depending with one’s taste and preferences, one must choose the clothes that best suites them. It’s important for women to speak out their mind on their preferences to their husbands to set the record straight on what they are comfortable to wear. Men appreciate this facts and are able to discuss their own view on dressing.

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