Some people falsely believe that lifestyle men have it made…that they are free of the cares and concerns of swinging women. However, nothing could be further from the truth! One must keep in mind that men are self-conscious, too—some even more so than female swingers.
Swinger Men are Appearance Conscious
The swingers lifestyle is arguably all about the law of attraction, so it’s only natural that both men and women who swing tend to pay more attention to their appearance. They tend to be in better shape, dress sharper and do more grooming of certain parts than the average couple.
Unfortunately for single swinger men, the standard they are upheld to in the lifestyle can be even more intense than those who are in relationships. One could argue that single men who are more attractive and well put together will enjoy greater success in the competitive world of swinging.
Performance Anxiety for Lifestyle Men is Very Real
You might believe that a man who gets laid by multiple partners would have no anxiety about their performance. This is also a mistaken conclusion. In fact, these men may actually have more performance anxiety than someone in a traditional relationship. Questions often whirl through the male brain where they question their size and attractiveness in relationship to other male playmates in the room.
These doubts can cause a snowball effect that actually does end up resulting in a lessened performance. Once the ball starts rolling, it can be challenging for a man to snap out of it and get back into the groove of things. The male ego can be a dangerous thing!
So here’s the scoop guys and gals: we all have anxieties and feel self-conscious from time to time. However, keeping a positive attitude and knowing just how amazing you truly are can help you succeed in the swingers lifestyle with greater confidence.
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