Wife swapping is one of the most misunderstood concepts of a swinger’s lifestyle. In wife swapping, two our more couples engage in sex with the wife of the other couple. While taboo to most traditional marriages, it can be incredibly beneficial for the women that engage in the lifestyle. So long as the couples involved understand that it is done as a couple, and not as a way to cheat on one another.
When couples are engaged in swapping, they choose couples that they have similar interests with and that they are comfortable with. This allows a woman to feel that she does have some control over who their partner is with. For many women, this alleviates fears and anxieties about their partner cheating. Couples that engage in this activity also make a circle of friends that they are comfortable around. Many people in an alternative lifestyle know that their ‘Vanilla’ friends may not be able to understand or accept this part of another’s life. There is a safety in being open around friends that you know share your interest.
Wife swapping provides for a safe outlet for sexual exploration, especially for bi-curious women. Women can explore each other knowing that their partner is enjoying the moment as well. Women that explore bi-curious desires in clubs and bars, may feel threatened or unwanted. Women in bars that are bi or lesbian may not be willing to share. Just like straight counterparts, they may want a relationship that would interfere with yours. There is also no pressure on the woman in swapping, since it is about wife swapping the women does not have to engage with the other woman if they get uncomfortable.
Women and men that engage in wife swapping often have a higher level of trust in their partner. When swapping is done as part of an intimate moment, rather than cheating, couples have fewer issues of jealousy. So long as the couple is open and secure in their relationship, women do not have to worry about their partner wandering for something that is ‘outside’ of the relationship. Men that are able to indulge their passions are less likely to wander. Unlike monogamous couples, the woman has a say in who their partner is with.
Wife swapping is not for everyone. Open communication and trust is a key element to any relationship, especially those in the swinging lifestyle. Women can benefit greatly by being able to explore their sexuality and fantasies in a safe manner, without endangering their relationship.Join and swap your wife now: Wife Swapping