On the fence about swinging? Check out this swingers checklist on why people swing in a relationship and the benefits. Although every couple will gain different benefits from participating in the Swinging Lifestyle, here are some benefits that both you and also your partner might experience both individually and in your relationship:
* You can recreate that very feeling you used to have when you first met, where both of you are excited and anxious.
* You will understand that there is a way for you to have sex with someone else without having to lie or cheat.
* You have the opportunity to learn to relax and appreciate sexual pleasure.
* You can improve your own sexual techniques.
* Allows both partners to explore their bi-curious side without becoming so much involved in lesbian or either gay community where you may feel much uncomfortable or unwelcome.
* You can make many good friends in the lifestyle who also share the same joy in swinging.
* You make more efforts to stay physically in shape.
* You can give and receive pleasure on many different levels.
* Your can enhance the commitment level in your relationship.
* You can wear your daring outfits from the adult catalogs and sex shops without being arrested, assaulted, or laughed at.
* You get to explore your sexuality and also sensuality in new methods that are not easily accepted in most traditional communities.
* You can act out life long fantasies and experience new ones that you could never have imagined in your wildest dreams.
* You can openly express your feelings and desires in a safe and comfortable environment.
* Both of you usually can make many new friends (in the swinging lifestyle) who may share the very same interests and desires. In fact, you will be surrounded by friends who are fun to be with.
* You learn how you can trust your partner, thus enhancing your commitment level in the relationship.
* You are able to express your sexual feelings and also desires more openly with your partner.
* You are exposed to different kinds of people, learning new techniques from them to enhance your sexual life.
* Both of you can satisfy the desires to fulfill any fantasies that you once had in mind; you may be doing things that you could never have imagined.
* Appreciate and enjoy the sexual pleasure in a new and different level of mindset.
* With the activities that both of you are involved in, you get to stay physically in shape.
* A good chance to explore both you and your other partner’s bi-curious side.