Truly the most open of all lifestyle choices, pansexuality offers an opportunity to love without limits. Even though it is difficult to identify why we feel certain ways, or choose certain attributes as being most attractive, most of us still define our sexuality with clear rules and boundaries.
People choose among many common dichotomies, including: for men or women, gay or straight, black or white. Without knowing why, we choose certain kind of people, often by something as seemingly arbitrary as hair color.
History of Pansexuality
The concept of pansexuality goes back to Freud, and has changed over time. Originally tied to sex, the definition has grown to include gender identity and even gender expression. Most recently, a large number of millennial youth have identified as pansexuals, including some famous people. Most notably, Miley Cyrus who came out as pansexual in a 2016 Variety interview, where she explained that “bisexual” was too confining a term. She knew from a young age that she was most attracted to individuals who combined characteristics from both traditional sex stereotypes.
Who is Pansexual?
According to some researchers, women are five times as likely as men to identify as pansexual. Also more likely to identify as pansexual are young people who are not heterosexual, and individuals who have what society considers a nontraditional gender role or expression.
As more and more people identify with the concept, there is an attempt to define what pansexuality entails. Even some who identify as strictly gay or straight also identify as pansexual, stressing that the key to attraction is personality.
The bottom line is that we need to do what makes us happy. As long as we are living the kind of life which is mentally healthy and emotionally fulfilling, the need to follow arbitrary rules only leads to guilt and regret.
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For people who identify as Bisexuals, that is, they have romantic or sexual attraction to both male and female, dating can sometimes be difficult. They tend to be in love with an individual based on attraction, personality, charter and chemistry and as oppose to gender. Because of this, they are sometimes seen as confused because they don’t necessarily have a sexual preference for one sex or another, which can hinder their prospects on regular dating websites. For bisexuals or bi-curious people, dating through an alternative lifestyle website may be a better option.
How do they find A Partner?
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- Don’t forget to upload a picture so others can see what you look like.
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You can have a threesome that is composed of two girls and one guy (FFM) or two guys with one girl (MMF). The two are different in their own ways and you cannot make a comparison between them. Some would consider the best among these is the one where there are two girls in action with a single guy. That is every straight man’s dream. Just seeing girl on girl action gets then aroused, much less to be a part of it.
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Coupes looking for a threesome prefer bisexuals when they decide to connect with others. This will enable them enjoy satisfaction from other sex drives. Remember in a couple, it can be possible that one partner prefers bisexual dating while the other one is not interested. In such a case after they decide to become swingers and resort to threesomes, they will easily introduce another party to their relationship, one who prefer bisexual dating.
You may be in a relationship where you have never tried bisexual activities, but are curious about it. On the swingers dating website, you can share your feeling with others who are bisexual and even agree to connect with someone who can fulfill you curiosity. This will allow you to achieve great experience rather than a case where you will be told stories about the great fun that is involved in bisexual relationships. There are also other types of sexual adventures you can engage in when a part of the lifestyle.
In a marriage there can be cases where the parties involved may not be satisfied. This can be due to the high sex drive that an individual may have. In threesomes there is room for a third party to be introduced to the relationship which will allow each of the parties involved in the relationship to enjoy great satisfaction during sex. In case you are yet to start threesomes, then you need to join websites that offer swing lifestyle dating services for you to get a person who will join you.