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Double Penetration – Explore A New Lifestyle Kink

If things get stale in the bedroom or it’s just time to try something new with your  partner, one of the most popular lifestyle kinks involves a sexual act called double penetration, or DP for short. However, DP isn’t just for those with an alternative lifestyle, as many people enjoy it as a part of their vanilla lifestyle with their monogamous partner.

Let’s explore what it is, what it involves and some tips for getting started with doubling up on sexual fun.

What is Double Penetration?

DP is the act of penetrating two openings in a sexual way, most typically the anus and the vagina. Double penetration can also involve inserting two body parts or sex toys into a single opening simultaneously. The versatile possibilities allow lifestyle couples to involve multiple partners or two people and a few toys—and can even be possible with one person with multiple toys or a dual-headed dildo.

Receiving penetration in the anus and vagina at the same time gives the receiver a feeling of fulness while creating a greater sense of tightness for the givers. This act can also stimulate the g-spot and the prostate for mind-blowing sexual pleasure.

Next, we’ll discuss what you need to proceed with DP and explore some tips for success.

Approaching & Preparing for DP With a Partner

When you’re ready to experiment with this type of play, there are a few key steps of ensuring a good time is had by all. It all starts with communication between participants. What are each person’s expectations, what do they want to experience, what are their fears, will others participate?

With those issues covered and a mutual agreement in place—including a safe word—it’s time to gather up the right tools for a comfortable and gratifying DP experience.

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How to Prepare for DP

Once rules have been set in place, get ready for the experience with a few tools of the trade. In addition to any protection against pregnancy or STD, one will want to get lots of body-safe silicone or water-based lube. Anyone wanting to use toys will need to let the receiver of the DP an array of sizes and shapes of phallic-like dongs and plugs to explore with solo before the first attempt at double penetration. If role playing, BDSM or other fantasies are to be acted out, obtain supplies to make it possible!

DP Starter Tips

Participants should begin with foreplay such as finger or toy insertion in one orifice before trying out two in order to loosen up the receiver and increase their comfort level for something larger. During the double penetration, several approaches can be explored. A vibrator and an anal plug or a partner’s member or a dildo attached to a harness are good starting points.

Some lifestyle couples introduce a second partner for MFM or FMF double penetration exploits. Remember, this can involve two insertions into one hole or a combination of both, so the possibilities with toys and other playmates open the doors for a whole world of exploration! Don’t forget that aftercare is a perfect way to end a DP session and encourage opportunities for future experiences.

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16 POSITIONS FOR DOUBLE PENETRATION

Did you know there are 16 positions for double penetration? So, you are planning your first double penetration, but really you have no idea on how to do it? You must be asking yourself what position to use? What are the differences between positions, etc. Whether you are just interested to learn more about double penetration, or you plan to have it yourself. Rest assured that these 16 Double Penetration positions that we found, will be more than enough.  READ MORE

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Sexual Adventures at Your Local Swingers Club

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Every swingers club is different, but all of them focus on providing a safe environment where you can freely explore your sexuality. If this is your first time at a swingers clubs, it’s important to research the local clubs in your area to find out the one that’s right for you.

Swingers clubs are open to couples and single females. Some clubs will allow single male on a specific night or accompanied by a couple.  These clubs require that you become a member and pay an annual membership fee in addition to an entry fee. This helps weed out people from outside of the community who merely wish to watch and not engage, and it also helps to protect everyone in the club.

What to Expect in a Swingers Club

BDSM (Bondage – S&M or Sadism & Masochism) – Some clubs have a BDSM culture, while others will have it as a theme night. Bondage is a sexual fetish where restraints are used, sometimes a DOM or Dominatrix will administer discipline while other times there are
dungeons, people getting flogged, whipped, caned, spanked etc.

Closed Door Swinging – There are designated areas in an on premise swing club where the playrooms are located. These playrooms can be used for closed door swinging where couples can partake in sexual intercourse with other couples. This can include full swap or soft swap couples looking for privacy.

Double Penetration (DP) – This practice is where sexual partners are willing to engage in sexual intercourse, one in the vaginal cavity and another in the anal cavity at the same time. This can take place in a close door setting or in an open door setting if the couples don’t mind being watched.

Exhibitionism – Couples engage in sexual activity while others watch them for their own sexual pleasures.

Group Room – This is where the orgies happen. This is where the foursome and more-some happen.

Voyeurism – Couples watching others having sexual intercourse for their own pleasures.

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Many people imagine swingers clubs as being extravagant orgies where you can fulfill every sexual desire without repercussions. While this can certainly happen, it’s best to enter the club with more realistic expectations. If you’re going with a partner, it’s likely that you’ll start the night off by yourselves before meeting others. Feel free to fool around with your partner, and if a couple you like makes a move, then you have easy access to a foursome or more.

Depending on the layout of the club, you may start off by relaxing on a couch that can seat two or more. If you continue to engage with more people, you may be able to move off to a more secluded area that features larger couches, beds, or even props. This may be a private room that you have to reserve, or it may be a free-for-all where anyone can join. Depending on the atmosphere, joining an orgy can be as easy as asking permission and getting in bed. It all Depends on your comfort zone and desires, you can expect anything from kissing multiple new partners to oral sex, handjobs, fondling, and sex.

Swingers clubs usually get more sexualized throughout the night, and they may turn into full-blown orgies if the chemistry is right and the ambiance encourages it. However, you’ll still have to make the same small-talk and introductions that you would at any other event. Luckily, everyone is at the club for the same reason as you, and that’s for having a fun and safe sexual adventure. So whether you’re going alone or with a partner, keep your expectations realistic, put on a friendly face, and allow the night to unfold naturally to have the best experience possible. Once you find the right swingers club, you’ll  want to return for more!
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Should You Trick Your Wife Into Going To A Swingers Club?

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Have you been thinking about gong to a swingers club? This is an event you have been planning for months, perhaps even years. For your twelfth wedding anniversary, which is quickly approaching, you promised your bride a very special evening out that she will long remember. You were married not long after she graduated high school and you and your wife have been a couple for 14 years now. She had a very religious upbringing and has only been with one single man in her life — you. You and Read More

The Sexual Fantasies You Can Live Out With Swinging

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Learn The Sexual Fantasies You Can Live Out With Swinging. Is your sex life dull and boring? Are you tired of the same routine? Well, maybe it is time for a change. It is time to think outside the box and experiment with possibilities you have not considered before.

Many people who find themselves in a sexual rut are now turning to swinging as a possible option. The truth is that many people are sexual struggles. The swinging lifestyle and swingers club atmosphere is a great way to recharge your sexual enjoy are re light that spark with your partner.

However, just because you are having some issues with your partner does not mean that you should automatically turn to swinging as the solution for your sexual problems. Talk to your partner, educate yourself about the lifestyle and explore it together. This is the only way it will work and help spice up your sex life.

It is amazing what you can learn about yourself when you decide to experiment with swinging. For many couples just attending a swingers club and experiencing the sexual atmosphere of the club is enough to create a spark and find a new passion for your partner.

Swinging fulfills a fantasy for many people. The idea of having sex with multiple partners appeals to a lot of people, even though they won’t actually admit it. Meeting new people, flirting, dancing with other couples can be the launching point for experiencing personal fantasies such as participating in orgies or sex with other couples.

Receiving attention from others will boost your confidence. A lack of confidence in your appearance or a feeling that you are unattractive often gets in the way of your sexual relationship with your partner. When others pay attention, people often feel more confident in themselves, and this positively impacts a person’s relationship with their partner.

Engaging in swinging and experiencing new partners will teach you new sexual techniques. It is very easy to get into the habit of doing the same thing all the time. Trying something new even though it may be subtle will change the mood and enhance the experience.

The swinging lifestyle will absolutely increase your sexual interest. It will allow you and your partner to find a new group of friends with common sexual interests that want to experience similar things.

Swinging will also help you evolve as a sexual being. You will learn a lot about yourself and your partner and your sexual curiosities will come to the surface. You may even have the opportunity to try things that you have always wanted to but were afraid to do in the past.

Swinging will absolutely help to spice up your sex life. However, it will only help if you pursue this avenue with your partner and experience swinging as a couple.
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Positive Effects of Double Penetration

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double penetrationMany couples are looking to spice things up a bit in the bedroom and every man and woman have some kind of fantasy that they want to act out. Double penetration is one of those fantasies and it can either be a woman’s or a man’s fantasy. In order to properly do double penetration all of the participants should be on board with the act. You don’t want someone to do something that they don’t want to do or that will be rape. Double penetration can happen in a few different ways. One is where two men are involved and the woman is penetrated vaginally and anally, or the mouth can be used as well, or a sex toy can be used if there is only one man.

It is fun to try new things but it can be scary to try this kind of act, so you want to go slow with it and maybe even work your way up to it. In recent studies it has been shown that more woman are becoming more adventurous with their sex lives and more women are even trying taboo things like anal sex more than what they did before. Many have also found out that women can reach orgasm during anal sex, which makes it more appealing to them. So basically if a woman knows that they can orgasm from having anal sex then they are more willing to at least try it.

double penetration 2Studies have also shown that women that have tried double penetration are more likely to have a vaginal orgasm than ones that are just having intercourse vaginally. And when you are the woman in the double penetration, you get all of the attention, unlike other threesomes with another woman. There is a good chance that you can have an orgasm anally and vaginally with is double the fun for woman and the men of the group.

Once all of the people that are participating in double penetration agree on all of the ground rules, then they can do it. You have to kind of prepare for something like this especially if you are a woman. And you have to make sure to use enough lubricating so it doesn’t hurt. Nothing can turn a woman off faster when trying something new if it is painful to her. All of the stereotypes of only porn stars doing things like double penetration have gone away because couples are more adventurous today than they were years ago.

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