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3 Reasons Why Couple Swapping Is a Good Idea


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The beauty of life is that everyone is unique in his own way and that is a good thing. However, some things are common among all humans even those that are sensitive subjects to discuss. For example, sex is enjoyable and you would like to have as much of it as you can in your lifetime. It is also true that people in relationships would like to have sex with individuals other than their partners. To put it differently, swapping is a natural instinct in humans. Here are some of the reasons why couple swapping is a good idea.

– Swapping Is Fun

Different people can offer you different things. For instance, some people can make you laugh while other people can arouse you sexually. Remember, laughing at a joke made by someone other than your spouse is okay. Then why is it wrong when someone other than your spouse pleases you sexually. In fact, you can both be present as the magic happens. Similarly, you can both laugh at the jokes made by a funny couple. Life is fun and it is short. Enjoy it while it lasts.

– Honesty in a Relationship

Feelings of suspicion between you and your partner will destroy your relationship. You should not let that happen because mending your precious bond is next to impossible once those feelings emerge. Being honest about your desires and preferred sexual adventures will save your relationship. Talk to your partner openly about your fantasies including your physical attraction to other couples. This kind of openness prevents mistrust from creeping into your relationship. Moreover, it encourages the exploration of each other’s sexuality in addition to enjoying the company of other couples in an open, safe, and honest way.

– Learning New Things

Different people have different talents, but you would never know which talent they have unless you interact with them. The same principle applies to sex. You will never know everything there is to know about sex, but you can learn as much as you can from your interaction with other couples. This learning process should not be a solo effort. Why should you leave your partner out of the equation as you interact with others in an intimate way? In fact, your partner may also learn a few things or two if you invite him to your sexual escapades. You can even teach other couples the tricks that you know so they can benefit from you as well. In the end, everyone wins. That is the reason why couple swapping is a good idea.

Positive Effects of Double Penetration


double penetrationMany couples are looking to spice things up a bit in the bedroom and every man and woman have some kind of fantasy that they want to act out. Double penetration is one of those fantasies and it can either be a woman’s or a man’s fantasy. In order to properly do double penetration all of the participants should be on board with the act. You don’t want someone to do something that they don’t want to do or that will be rape. Double penetration can happen in a few different ways. One is where two men are involved and the woman is penetrated vaginally and anally, or the mouth can be used as well, or a sex toy can be used if there is only one man.

It is fun to try new things but it can be scary to try this kind of act, so you want to go slow with it and maybe even work your way up to it. In recent studies it has been shown that more woman are becoming more adventurous with their sex lives and more women are even trying taboo things like anal sex more than what they did before. Many have also found out that women can reach orgasm during anal sex, which makes it more appealing to them. So basically if a woman knows that they can orgasm from having anal sex then they are more willing to at least try it.

double penetration 2Studies have also shown that women that have tried double penetration are more likely to have a vaginal orgasm than ones that are just having intercourse vaginally. And when you are the woman in the double penetration, you get all of the attention, unlike other threesomes with another woman. There is a good chance that you can have an orgasm anally and vaginally with is double the fun for woman and the men of the group.

Once all of the people that are participating in double penetration agree on all of the ground rules, then they can do it. You have to kind of prepare for something like this especially if you are a woman. And you have to make sure to use enough lubricating so it doesn’t hurt. Nothing can turn a woman off faster when trying something new if it is painful to her. All of the stereotypes of only porn stars doing things like double penetration have gone away because couples are more adventurous today than they were years ago.

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