Nowadays many swingers have resorted to hosting their own swinger parties at their homes. This normally happens after they have known each other for a while over a swingers’ social platform like Swinglifestyle (SLS).
Having a swinger party at home is a great idea. It will give you an opportunity of interacting with other swingers in the privacy of your own home. This will enable you to enjoy great swinging activities while enjoying great fun at home. Just like any other party, a swinger party will require prior preparation for you to make it stand out.
Here are some of the tips you need to apply to make your swingers party preparation successful:
- Pre-Party Cleaning.
Swingers will use different rooms in your home. Make sure all areas designed to swinger activities are clean. This will require some time, so set time aside and carry out the cleaning job before the real day. You should ensure the bathroom is clean with clean towels and rags available for your guests. The bedrooms should be thoroughly cleaned. Make sure the bed linens are all clean and fresh. If you have a pool and hot tub area that will be open to your guests, make sure that is clean as well. Hot tub is a preferred area for swinging adventures. Some swingers will prefer using condoms, so make sure you have them strategically placed throughout your home.
- Food and Drink
For a swinger party, it’s nice to have finger foods. Unlike a normal party where you will have to prepare a full meal, at a swinger party, you can have small snacks available for your guests. It’s nice to have something handy so your guests can eat after they have been exhausted to replenish the energy that they may have lost during their sexual adventure. There are those who will like to have alcohol. I find that a BYOB type of event works well for swingers house parties. That way, everyone will be satisfied and you won’t have to worry about having drinks to suit everyone’s need. Make sure to arrange a bar in your home with mixers, cups and ice that they can use to enjoy their drinks.
- Get Things rolling with some fun Games
At first, the party may have some tensions. Not all guest know and are comfortable with each other. This may be your first swinger house party in a residential area and you may be a little nervous from it all. Break the ice and let people get excited. You can use games to cheer them up. Some of the games that you can use include spin the bottle, strip twister and others. Once the guest becomes engage in the games, they will get used to each other and make it easy for them to engage in other swinger related activities.
- Room Assignment
For your party to stand out, you need to assign each room a certain function. There should be specific rooms where the swingers can go and enjoy privacy while others will be used for socializing. This will require you to have a big house so that the party will be successfully. Rooms used for taking baths should be marked, in case you have a single bathroom, you should let the guests know prior to starting the party because there are others who will prefer taking their adventures to the bathroom which can hinder others from using it.
Swinger parties are somewhat different from swinger clubs as these parties tend to be more intimate. They are normally organized by lifestyle couples or singles in their home or at a special venue.
If you plan on attending a swinger party, it may be a good idea to be prepared so you have an idea of what to expect. Know what times the party starts, the theme, if you have to bring your own alcohol and mixers, will they be serving food or do you need to eat before you go. It can be boring sometimes to arrive at the party and wait for the other couples to show up. Things like this will happen if you do not prepare.
Early preparation is the best thing to avoid unnecessary embarrassments. You can either be a guest or a host and here is a guide for such a party.
Preparing For a Party
Do some research on the venue before the actual time of the party if this will be your first time there. Try and find out the specifications of the swinger party and know what is expected from you. Make sure your attire is appropriate for the occasions and make sure to do some personal grooming before attending the party in case you decide to play.
The Party Favors
There are some preparations that should be made whether you are a guest or a host of a swinger party. First, there should be condoms. Try and look for different types of condoms so that all the people who are involved will be happy and comfortable because they get to choose their brand. Besides, as a guest, it’s recommended that you bring your brand of condoms so you will not be worried when they are exhausted.
It is also a good idea to have some food. There are some instances where the party extends for a very long time. This means that if you don’t have some food, you will not even concentrate on the party. You can have light food that will be easier and convenient to carry and this will keep you active throughout the party.
Finally, you should have some alcoholic drinks at the party. If you are the host, you have to organize and if you are a guest, you can carry some to the venue. This will make other people get loose and want to engage with others for your party will be a success.
As a swinger, it is enjoyable to take advantage of lifestyle friendly resorts when deciding where to vacation. Hedonism, Jamaica is one such swinger’s resort that allows you the option of embracing the lifestyle while on their premises. It offers a great all inclusive vacation package so you won’t break the bank when planning your swinger vacation. You should try and book in advance to ensure availability as Hedonism tends to be a lifestyle destination favorite. Failure to book in advance can lead to you being inconvenienced and not enjoying the vacation you had hoped. You can book in advance through their website or contact a swinger travel agent like Topless Travel for upcoming destination events.
Here are some benefits that you will enjoy once you decide to visit a swingers resort.
Swingers Meet & Greets
Making new friends in the lifestyle may be something that is more difficult for you. While visiting a swingers resort, there are multiple Meet & Greets that are helps so swinger couples can get to know each other and connect of a social level before play. Through making new friends, you can easily improve your life with the exchange of new ideas. Some of the bonds and friendship created at these events are long lasting friendships that end up making a positive and lasting effect on your social life.
Whether you decide to go with a group or just for a romantic get away with your partner, there are great swinger parties that are held on site. If you are in the mood to stay up all night dancing, there are live music and entertainment, or you can visit the worlds famous Club Hurricane for all the latest mix. In addition, you can spend all your night while dancing to good music at the nightly themed events that are held for swingers where the party extends to their onsite playrooms. In case you like singing there is also a place where you will be able to play piano. As a way of breaking the monotony of your everyday routine attending any one of the swinger parties or events at the swingers resort will lead to an erotic experience.
Spa and Massage Services
A vacation wouldn’t be complete without some time for relaxation and rejuvenation. After attending a swinger’s events at Hedonism Resort, the Spa is the best place for you to recoup. There are spa and massage services offered by highly experienced experts that you can utilize at the resort. Make it a couples experience with a couples massage by the beach. This is a great way for you and your partner to unwind and experience such pleasure together. The massage services is also a great way to overcome any stress that you may be experiencing.
In case you are a fan of water-skiing or windsurfing, these are some of the activities you will also enjoy while at the resort. They also expose you to different tourist attractions and excursions such as naked volleyball, skinny dipping in the ocean, snorkeling, scuba diving or glass bottom boat rides. It will be a great fun filled adventure that you get to experience with other swingers. If you have never participated in any of these activities before, not to worry, there are instructors on site that will help to get you started and allow you the chance to enjoy the game. Engaging in these excursions is also a great way to get to know others while visiting a swingers resort.
Swinger house parties are more discreet and normally by invitation only. Announcements for such parties are normally broadcast on swinger’s website, where a community of open minded people in the lifestyle gets to connect with others. If you are a part of the swinging lifestyle and want to plan a swinger house party, here are a few tips:
- Post your event on a swinger’s dating website to connect with local swingers in your area. (Decide if you want a themed or non-themed party).
- Try to advertise the event at least 30 days before the date, that way you are guaranteed a better than expected turnout.
- Specify in the invite if it’s a BYOB event or if alcohol will be provided.
- On the day of the event, make sure the property is clean and ready to receive guests.
- If you are having a pool party, make sure the pool is clean and ready for use.
- Specify the areas that will be designated as play areas and playrooms. Also keep in mind that you may have smokers at the party, so you want to designate an area for that purpose as well.
- Make sure there are clean sheets and towels available at all times by the play areas.
- Condoms and lots of them should be everywhere, along with some sex toys, maybe a swing, and a cage etc., something to add a little spice to the party.
- If you have kids make sure they stay with relatives or a neighbor, and if you have pets, the same, or put them in an unused room with some food and water.
- Make sure you have enough parking to accommodate your guest. Some neighbors may not like cars parked on their grass on in their driveway.
- Have some music playing and some swinger adult videos on the tube, and get ready to receive your guest.