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Choosing The Right Man For A MFM Threesomes

February 7, 2024Swingers Resources, UncategorizedMFM, swinger couples, swingers, swingers lifestyle, the lifestyle, threesomesswingersdotorgadmin

Having two males in bed together can be exciting for the woman of a swinger couple. A Male Female Male threesome is most commonly referred to as MFM encounters in the lifestyle. This means that the woman is typically ‘the center of attention” and gets to play with both men, but there is no interactions between the two males of the threesome.

Finding the ideal man to add to your triad should involve open and honest communication between couple, so you can find someone where everyone is comfortable. We’re offering a few tips to help you make the best choice.

Determining What You Want in a Second Male Partner

You and your partner will want to jot down what the most important character and traits for their new addition. Discuss any details about what you’re both looking for which includes a number of factors. Experienced swinger couples likely already know what their preferences are so at this point its just a vetting process.

Are Appearances Important to You?

Do you want a hot and sexy man to challenge your senses? Or is a fairly typical man ideal for your MFM threesomes? This is a great starting point for choosing a man to join in your playtime.

Do You Prefer Gentle or Passionate Lovers?

Sometimes, couples are into cuddling and kissing, while others may find it too personal. Some couples may even go as far as having a no kissing rule as that may be a bit too intimate. However, if you want passion along with pleasure, find a man who has that to offer and discuss the rules beforehand with all parties involved.

Do You Want Some Kinky BDSM Action?

More people are into bondage and other fetishes than you might realize. If you want a like-minded male partner, make sure to clarify that. You don’t want to catch a man off guard with floggers, ropes and other gear that could be triggering for him. Set guidelines and get permission.

Should the Man Be Bisexual or Straight?

With the woman taking the middle position, the two men may prefer not to engage with each other sexually. Yet, if both men are bisexual or even bi-curious, the experience can get even more interesting on a broader scope and definitely bring forth some excitement to Male Female Male threesomes.

Do You Want Someone to Talk & Flirt with You & Your Partner?

Some swingers couples prefer the silent, anonymous type, while others may want someone comfortable enough to have a conversation before or after their encounter. You’ll likely be able to identify the person’s social habits during your first phone or internet conversation.

Additional Planning Concepts

You’ll want to determine a few things before heading for the gusto, including:

How soon do you and your partner want to make this meet-up happen?
Who will host the festivities, or will you meet at a hotel?
Will you consider meeting up with the man again, or is it a one-time affair?

Make the Night One To Remember

Whether it’s your first MFM or not, make things extra special at the designated meet-up point. If it’s your home or a hotel room, set the mood with some candles, massage oil, music etc. Otherwise, pack a goodie bag with your mood makers and get ready for a ‘sex’sational MFM time.

Different types of threesomes and the benefits

Many couples get a bit bored with their sex life and start thinking about options to spice it up. For many people the idea of a threesome comes to …

WHY WOMEN LOVE CREAMPIES IN A THREESOME WITH TWO MEN

Women love experimenting and when it comes to sex they just want to test their limits. Having one man satisfy you is just not as thrilling as having two or more men attend to you. Threesomes are now becoming…

FFM THREESOMES DEBATE: SHE WANTS A BUTCH…HE WANTS A FEM

Even the strongest couples amid the swingers lifestyle can run into differences concerning their preferences when it comes to play time. Fortunately, most of them can be worked out, including situations in which the couple wants an FFM threesome but their tastes in women varies tremendously. It’s more common than you think, and it’s typically that she wants a butchy woman while he wants the ultra-hot fem. Read on to explore some ways to find resolution acceptable for everyone. Who’s Sleeping With Her Anyway? In an FFM arrangement, there is READ MORE

The Voyeur Fetish in Swinging Explained

October 6, 2023Swingers Resourcesfetish, swinger parties, swingers, swinging lifestyle, Voyeurism, voyeursswingersdotorgadmin

Watching others engage in intimacy and sex acts can be a powerful stimulator comparable to direct participation. Hence, the rise in demand for pornographic films and photos. However, voyeurs are common in the swinging lifestyle and can enjoy more variety in their sex life through mere observation.

What Is Voyeurism?

Voyeurism involves receiving sexual gratification by watching others who are undressing, naked, or participating in sexual activity. Those in the swingers lifestyle understand the importance of consent and boundaries before engaging in this fetish. The rewards with an agreeable partner can transform your sex life tremendously.

4 Ways to Practice Voyeurism In the Lifestyle

When a couple or group in the lifestyle agree to consensual voyeurism, it can become a respectful and responsible way to spice things up in bed or at playrooms.

Here are some of the top ways voyeurs indulge themselves.

1. Observe Your Partner Masturbating

If they are comfortable with it, ask your partner to masturbate or put on a show for you. Some like to hide nearby and watch, while others prefer being visible and making special requests to the other person. When observing, pay attention to how their body reacts, and attempt to incorporate some of those special moves into your routine sex life.

2. Watch a Bit of Live Video Porn

There are many websites that specialize in catering to voyeurs of all tastes. Masturbation, soft porn, LGBTQ-friendly and a variety of fetish categories. This is the best way to be a watcher from a distance.

3. Role Playing

Envision a role play scenario where you get to be a voyeur watching your partner or allow them to watch you if they like. Be sure to discuss with your partner to get permission and to see if it’s a turn on for them, too. Sometimes a sexy dance in lingerie or a hot shower scene can drive one over the top and open the doors to other ventures.

4. Watch Your Partner Be Intimate With Someone Else

Swingers and those in open relationships (or are considering it) might consider allowing their partner to have a soft or hard swap with another person. You might want to find another couple to play with, but be sure to have set rules and boundaries defined before making such arrangements.

Places to Indulge in Voyeuristic Fantasies

There are plenty of places to watch and be watched enjoying sexual relations. If you prefer to not be physically present to watch, check out online swingers sites, where many voyeurs can be found.

Swingers clubs often have special rooms with windows where others can watch those inside. Swinger resorts and cruises are often clothing optional, and nudity in and of itself can be a fetish. Should you want to go further, voyeur and swinger parties may take place locally, most of which are by invitation only.

This short guide can get you started in the world of watching and being watched. Remember, set firm guidelines with committed partners before participating in this swingers lifestyle realm.

SWINGERS FETISH

No matter who you are everyone has their own fetish, just as all swingers have their own fetish. Sure Mike Hatcher might like to watch a wife being led around by a dog collar for a gang bang; you know something romantic like that, whereas others have a different fetish. There are many possible versions of swinger fetishism, as they may apply to the lifestyle of swingers. Generally swingers can be defined as couples that are living together, possibly married, and share an open relationship as a couple. This is… READ MORE

Voyeurism: Most Swingers Enjoy Being Watched!

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Ice Breakers for First Time Swinger Meet Ups

July 7, 2022Swingers ResourcesSwinger Meet and Greet, swinger meet up, swingers, swingers lifestyle, swingingswingersdotorgadmin

Entering into the swingers lifestyle is sure to provide some good times, but those first time swinger meet & greet opportunities can be challenging. Unless you’re an outgoing individual who is accustomed to meeting new people and enjoying social gatherings, you might want to be prepared with a few of these tips and tricks on how to break the ice at an upcoming event.

Do Some Initial Research

One of the best ways to alleviate anxiety about swinger meet ups is to do a bit of research about the event you are planning to attend. Doing so can help you be prepared for the festivities, which is important if the swingers meet & greet is themed. If any questions aren’t clarified in the invite or on the organizer’s website, don’t hesitate to call and make some inquiries to get yourself in the right headspace for a successful experience.

Avoid Excessive Drinking

While imbibing a drink to get relaxed before heading off to a swinging meet-up is reasonable, don’t use excessive alcohol or intoxicants to relieve stress. There’s a big difference in having a bit of liquid courage and showing up as a sloppy drunk to meet a bunch of people you don’t know. These types of events are best navigated when sober, so you are present both physically and mentally during the experience.

Avoid Being a Fly on the Wall

While it’s perfectly fine to sit on the sidelines for a bit to evaluate the scene after arriving, not much action is likely to happen if you don’t engage with others at the event. Being a fly on the wall or glued to a chair all night can actually make you look unapproachable to other swinging attendees.

Remember, if you are nervous, you are likely not alone. There are others there who are possibly first timers too, so socializing with them can offer an immediate connection. After all, everyone who is at the meet and greet is there for the same reason—to have fun with like-minded people.

Don’t Be Afraid to Separate

If you’re bringing a partner to the event, it’s perfectly acceptable to go the divide and conquer route. Just be sure to have set rules in place between yourselves to avoid any miscommunications or experiencing a deal-breaker incident.

Read the room to find someone you might want to play with, and be mindful in approaching them respectfully. With both partners actively working the room, it will take far less time to get into the action. However, this might not work for all couples, and some other swingers might feel more comfortable engaging with other couples in unison from the get-go.

Ready to Get Swinging?

Make the most out of your first event with these tips to make connections in one night that can be life changing. With that in mind, baby steps are okay. Not all swinging friendships start with sex right away, but getting a good start at a meet-up can lead to future get-togethers where nothing is taboo.

WAYS TO MEET PEOPLE FOR GROUP SEX

Group sex may be an exciting addition to your sex life and especially so if you and/or your partner are into the unconventional and kinky. Group sex may feature in your lifestyle and sexual preferences or may just be an item you eager to cross off that long bucket list. Either way, a good start to making a reality of it is in finding participants; consenting adults, willing to come out and play. Finding group sex participants may be particularly challenging, especially in a rigidly conservative society that unanimously READ MORE

Meet New Lifestyle Couples Using Swinger Chatrooms

Online dating is quickly becoming the new norm for meeting like minded people, and swinger chatrooms is a great place to start. Not everyone involved in the swingers lifestyle is… READ MORE

HOW TO MEET OTHERS IN THE SWINGERS LIFESTYLE ONLINE WITHOUT WASTING TIME

In an app-fueled world, there’s no shortage of folks tapping and swiping away in search for a playmate. The problem that most swingers have with apps is essentially finding the right one to meet someone on their level, and each…

Erotic Spanking Tips – How to Please Your BDSM Sub

April 19, 2022Swingers ResourcesBDSM, BDSM lifestyle, erotic spanking, spanking, swingers, swingingswingersdotorgadmin

There is no lack of ways to have a bit of naughty fun in the bedroom, and impact play is one of the top spontaneous ‘go to’s’ for bold and experimenting couples. While those experienced in the BDSM lifestyle may be accustomed to the concept of erotic spanking, the art of pleasing a partner while engaging in the act can be illusive. We’re here to assist with a few tips to ensure success and maximum satisfaction for all involved.

Head for the Rear…But Don’t Forget the Rest of the Body

Impact play is the term used by swingers and vanilla couples when discussing any form of impact on one’s body for sexual gratification purposes. Naturally, the rear end is a great starting point to explore any desire to find pleasure in the pain.

However, just about any part of the body can be the target zone for various forms of spanking, as the stimulation increases blood flow and can drive a routine sex session to an entirely higher plane of satisfaction. Maximize on this concept with attention to not only the butt but keep the nipples, groin and other sweet spots on the menu.

Hands, Paddles & Whips…Oh My!

There’s no need for expensive toys or massive forethought to get into impact play, but they can be a turn on that your sub just loves. Every instrument delivers a different sensation, but newbies will likely begin their erotic spanking journey with a hand. Those new to the experience, can also start small and use what they have handy around the home.

If both partners find it pleasurable, things can get a bit hotter and more intense with some toys common in the BDSM lifestyle like whips, floggers, and perhaps even pair the experience with some soft bondage implements.

Mix It Up: Alternate Between Spanks, Rubs & Squeezes

While spanking can be a divine experience in and of itself, it can be taken to a whole new level of sensations when the paddle zones are also caressed with rubs and squeezes. Mixing it up can establish a memorable and highly erotic spanking session. Change the shape of the hand, the speed and frequency and strength of these actions to keep things somewhat unpredictable for your sub and certainly more exciting.

Really Want to Know How Your Sub Gets Their Pleasure?

As with just about any situation involving a main partner or one in a swingers situation, the best way to find out what gets them off and heightens their pleasure is to ask! Communication is always the key, but do remember–subs love to be punished, so it’s okay to go off-script on occasion to discover other aspects of erotic spanking that are enjoyable but not yet realized.

A GUIDE TO BEING A SUBMISSIVE IN THE BDSM LIFESTYLE

Swingers who are comfortable with participating in the lifestyle sometimes find themselves digging a bit deeper into the kink to explore the BDSM lifestyle. While this type of sex play has been popularized by the 50 Shades of Grey series, there’s a lot more to dom/sub play done off the big screen. Typically, there’s no contract involved and submissives don’t give over full control per se. Let’s explore why subs love what they do and their daddy doms that provide them with both pain and pleasure. A Greater Feeling of READ MORE

You Want Me to Do What? A Guide to BDSM Swingers Boundaries

A bit of role play is well within the confines of the average swingers boundaries, but even those in the BDSM lifestyle typically have some limits. That’s the whole purpose …

SEXUAL DISCIPLINE IN THE SWINGERS & BDSM LIFESTYLE EXPLAINED

Whether you’re into swinging, BDSM, love being punished or are a mighty dom who appreciates keeping a submissive, the concept of discipline is nothing new to you. However, those just getting into the lifestyle of submissive/dominant relationships, will appreciate this…

Tips for Protecting Your Privacy in the Swingers Lifestyle

October 13, 2021Swingers Resourcesswingers, swingers chatrooms, swingers lifestyle, swingers website, swingingswingersdotorgadmin

Depending on how open participants are, many in the swingers lifestyle opt to keep their sex lives private. However, in today’s world, information is easier to obtain about who you are, where you live and other details that can be both embarrassing and pose a danger to your safety.

Fortunately, the majority of swingers appreciate privacy too, so follow these security tips to maintain some sense of anonymity when chatting with new people, especially those you meet on a swingers website.

Keeping Your Identity a Mystery Until Sharing Feels Right

A good many people in the swinging scene create a profile name that describes interests or likes instead of using their real name or any variation to their real one. It only takes a few clicks online to find out personal info when using your actual identity.

Protecting Email Accounts and Phone Numbers

It’s important not to share personal contact details with others on a swingers platform. Use whatever features the site has such as instant messaging and video chat to vet potential playmate. Look out for the ones requesting your personal phone number or email address on first contact so they can “chat” more offline. Those living in smaller towns or who are well known can use their alternate name and list themselves as residing in a nearby town if meeting swingers nearby is important.

Consider getting a burner phone should you choose to share your number. Creating a second email address is free and can be a dedicated connection point solely for swinging efforts.

Preventing Images From Doxxing Your Info

It’s risky to take pictures in the home, workplace or even nearby identifiable landmarks in your community. Use a virtual background in online swingers chatrooms, and don’t show your face when taking nudes.

Use photo editors that can blur out identifying markings and set the privacy features on your photo galleries to protect images you don’t want shared with the public. When you are willing to share sexy photographs, don’t store them on your ‘vanilla’ phone, but place them in password-protected galleries on sites you frequent.

There are swinger website that provides you the added security and privacy that allows you to play freely. Be on the look out for pic collectors and those that engage with the lifestyle in bad faith. Free profiles on swingers sites often lack access to most features while some members only play with other paid members. It shows a commitment to the lifestyle in general. If you’re serious about the swingers lifestyle, we suggest reading up on what the lifestyle is all about on swingers forums and swinger groups.

Why Couples Get Into Swinging

Swinging is a form of lifestyle that is gaining popularity and there are many people out there adopting this lifestyle. This kind of relationship has been ongoing for a … READ MORE

WHY SWINGING DOES WONDERS TO YOUR LACKLUSTER MARRIAGE

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HOW TO SPOT REAL SWINGERS PERSONAL PROFILE ONLINE

Some adult profiles can seem inauthentic and determining which ones are real can prove a bit more challenging — particularly when it comes to adult personals in the swingers lifestyle. However, with these easy tips, you can more easily spot if someone you’re considering for play is truly who they say they are with intentions that match up with your own. Pay Attention to Swinger Profile Details Take a close look at the sexual preferences, weight, height and other pertinent details in all the swingers personals you review. Those that READ MORE

Considering Hotwifing? Here’s How to Screen Potential Playmates

July 7, 2021Hotwifinghotwife, hotwife relationships, hotwifing, swingers, swingers lifestyleswingersdotorgadmin

In the swingers lifestyle, it’s fairly common for wives to fantasize about being with another partner while their spouse is present—or not. This agreement is known as a hotwife relationship, with both partners and participants fully consenting. These arrangements can be loads of fun, but finding the right man or men to play with takes careful consideration.

Here are some screening tips for potential hotwifing partners.

Pre-Screening Partners

Many might call these men ‘bulls,’ and the most common place to find these party boys is online. While there’s no shortage of swinger and lifestyle sites to browse what’s out there, finding a service that requires some form of pre-screening for members is very wise.

Many sites allow reviews to be left by previous playmates, and they can be a good indicator of who’s worthy of your time. It’s also nice to look at photos and get a feel for them before considering any type of communication or meet-ups.

Measure the Chemistry Level

If you’re not into their photos or find their bio appealing, it’s not likely that there will be much chemistry in person. However, this can perhaps be best measured with some small talk or basic video communication before tossing their profile aside.

It’s important for both swingers in the relationship to have some chemistry with someone that they plan to take to the bedroom. Sometimes, men are better judges of character, because who understands men better than men?

Don’t Feel the Need to Rush Into a Hotwife Relationship

Considering that your new bull is likely a complete stranger, take time to meet up for a casual date if you’ve gotten past the screening and are attracted to them. Public places for a few drinks or a casual meal is great starting point. Bring along the spouse or at least a girlfriend or two for added security and as a possible way out should the meeting not go as well as planned.

Have a few code words or secret signals to use if things get uncomfortable. Either way, take time to get a feel for the bull before hopping into the sack or bringing them to your home.

Be Spontaneous, But Do So Safely

Those in the swingers lifestyle have an obligation to themselves and their partners to play it safe. This means having appropriate protection, such as condoms ready to go in case the action gets hot unexpectedly.

It’s also a smart call to make sure that you don’t go out to clubs or bars in search of bulls without your partner or friends. After all, these meetings can be risky and that fantasy sex can end up being a very bad and dangerous situation.

Use Your Intuition

Those gut instincts are essential in hotwifing, so anyone you meet online can either give you a good or bad vibe. Trust your intuition, and be sure to take the reviews of other swingers into consideration. There are quite a few wolves in the regular dating world, so prepare to cross a few bad apples in your search for the perfect bull to bring into your life.

THE HOTWIFE LIFESTYLE FOR BEGINNERS

The hotwife way of life advances to numerous men and ladies of a receptive nature who have a stable relationship and wish to investigate past the skylines of conventional sexuality in regards to marriage and monogamy. The hotwife way…

Inside the Mind of a Hotwife: What She’s Really Thinking

A hotwife is a special type of member of the swingers lifestyle. These ladies simply love having sex with different partners, either in front of their spouse or on solo … READ MORE

THREE WAYS TO BE A HOTWIFE IN AND OUT OF THE BEDROOM

Most hotwives make satisfying their husband in and out of the bedroom a priority, and there’s no denying that the majority of men enjoy seeing their hotwife exhibit a bit of slut-laden naughtiness every now and then. Here are three clever ways to spice up your slut level to keep your man excited day in and out. 1. Feel Like a Goddess Every Day…Exude Your Awesomeness There are not too many things that a man loves and appreciates more than self-confidence in a woman. When you feel sexy you ARE READ MORE

Tips On Over-cumming’ Performance Anxiety in the Lifestyle

April 29, 2021Swingers ResourcesPerformance anxiety, swingers, swingers lifestyle, swingers playtime, swingingswingersdotorgadmin

It’s not unnatural for people to have anxiety about certain aspects of sex, their own body or even their partner from time to time. However, in the swingers lifestyle, feeling a bit nervous about initial encounters can be prevalent.

Performance anxiety can prevent our bodies from responding in the way we hope when it comes down to playtime sessions and staying aroused—or getting there—may become challenging.

Singles and couples should consider the following to fully overcome lifestylw insecurities and boost confidence at lifestyle parties or with new partners in private settings.

Bypass Sexual Insecurities

One or two not so great experiences may be signs of sexual fears and barriers that impede having the best time possible. However, these methods and practices can boost esteem and make you a standout at lifestyle clubs and other personal interactions when swinging.

Do a Little Research

Are you dry, suffering from erectile dysfunction or having trouble peaking in bed? A little online research can help you dive into the causes of these issues, as can consulting with a medical provider who can help discover if there’s a physical source of the problem.

Build Confidence

Grow self-esteem through self talk and don’t hesitate to reach out to your primary partner about these concerns. Their understanding can be very reassuring. Consider including more physical exercise in daily activities which can boost libido, body confidence and increase longevity.

Try Soft Swapping During Swingers Playtime

Sometimes the pressure of feeling the need for a full swap can result in anxiety, especially for newer exchanges. Sometimes, easing into the scene with a soft swap with one new partner at a time can be comforting, as these don’t necessarily require an erection or a performance. It can involve touching, kissing, caressing and massaging rather than full on sex.

Employ a Few Toys

Toys are commonplace at many lifestyle parties, as they can help everyone get into the mood. Why not bring them into your everyday life or swinging partnerships for a bit of a morale booster? Should you not be in the mood, a good selection of toys can save the experience, ensuring a good time is had by all.

Take Care of Yourself First

If getting going is a struggle, you can head to the bathroom to get a rev in your step so to speak with a bit of masturbation, deep breathing or visual work. Some enjoy masturbating in front of partners, but others might find privacy more reassuring. If staying hard longer is a concern, get yourself off first to increase stamina for the real deal.

Divide and Conquer

If performance anxiety is associated with performing in front of a current partner or strangers in lifestyle clubs, head to a separate room with swingers playmates. This means you aren’t being analyzed, nor is your lovemaking style, so dividing it up can be beneficial in certain situations.

Remember, our bodies are often unpredictable and may not always do what we want when we want. Try these helpful tips for easing sexual performance anxiety and find more pleasure ultimately in the swingers lifestyle and in your everyday relationship.

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SWINGERS AND PERFORMANCE ANXIETY

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SAME ROOM VS SEPARATE ROOM WHEN COUPLE SWAPPING

Along with threesomes, couple swapping is often a key component of relationships for those involved in the swinging lifestyle. However, there is always an underlying question that arises with each encounter: Should couples enjoy the action in the same room, or should they head to separate rooms? In short, the answer depends on the participant’s preferences. Let’s get under the sheets a bit in both scenarios and explore the differences between both experiences. Swinging with Partners in the Same Room Many couples enter the swinging lifestyle because they get turned READ MORE

How the Swingers Lifestyle Enhances Intimate Relationships

March 5, 2021Swingers Resourcesintimate relationships, sexless relationship, swingers, swinging, swinging couplesswingersdotorgadmin

Many vanilla and traditionally monogamous individuals without a sense of sexual adventure have a tendency to proclaim that the swingers lifestyle is a surefire way to a breakup or a divorce.

However, many couples involved in swinging will disagree along with several polls and studies that support the notion that swingers can—and do—have rather healthy intimate relationships.

Here’s how giving an intimate relationship a new twist with swinging can promote a more solid commitment and boost sex appeal.

Jealously is Surpassed in Swinging

There is absolutely no room for jealous inclinations in the realm of healthy intimate relationships, but this can present a bit of new challenge for swinging couples just delving into the lifestyle. Jealousy can kill the good vibes and dampen the trust and love in any relationship, swinging or monogamous.

The willingness to share a partner without letting the green-eyed monster rear its ugly head indicates a solid connection with a primary partner. According to many mental health counselors, swinging couples in an intimate relationship tend to be both more satisfied and committed to their partnership than their vanilla peers.

Swinging Can Boost Confidence

Healthy intimate relationships are had between individuals who each have their own strong sense of confidence. Not to be egotistical, but it sure can make one feel pretty good about themselves to know that they are desired by others outside of their relationship.

Having the ability to act upon those desires with the consent of a partner can provide a pick-me-up that restores sexual prowess back at home. Scratching those itches and letting someone outside the confines of the committed partnership with a one-time fling or amid the swingers lifestyle just might help a strong relationship gain even greater traction.

Curb Cheating In An Intimate Relationship

When the rules are abided by, the swingers lifestyle is kind of like a hall pass with consent, no jealously, and there is no need to cheat. Boredom or being involved in a lackluster or sexless relationship can easily lead to cheating. Regardless of WHY one or both partners seek to fulfill sexual needs outside of the primary bonds, discussing an alternative lifestyle can prevent cheating and actually establish a closer connection between couples.

Excitement Strengthens Relationship Bonds

The monotony of monogamy can be a primary reason for the ending of a union. According to scientific studies, only nine percent of the mammals in the world practice monogamy, which leads us to wonder how we should expect the human species to have only one mate? Likely the rise of religions calling for monogamy has pushed our species into this non-natural existence.

However, shouldn’t we all be allowed to live in ways that make us happy, soothe our bodies and satisfy our physical and emotional desires without judgement? Swinging with the consent and within guidelines established let’s couples open up and enjoy a greater sense of satisfaction with their partners without fear of repercussions.

Stay together longer. Have a healthier intimate relationship. Go outside of the norm if you and your partner are comfortable doing so and give the swingers lifestyle a try.

Top 3 Reasons Why Swinging Works

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HOW SWINGER COUPLES ARE COPING DURING COVID-19

As people are finding themselves restless during the COVID-19 pandemic, those in the swingers lifestyle are even more antsy. Social distancing guidelines have heavily restricted the opening and capacity levels in bars, clubs, on cruises and in public places. This…

SWINGER COUPLES ONLY ENJOY THESE HEALTH BENEFITS

Believe it or not, swinger couples do have greater health benefits due to more orgasms. Orgasms are directly connected with the happy mood and mental strength of both the sex partners. Both of these factors are present more in swinging couples as compared to monogamous couples as they are controlled by various other factors. Flexibility, creative capacity, adaptation of changing circumstances and indefinable thinking are some of the factors that rule the mood and metal health of a person. When you compare the sexual life of swinging couples and monogamous READ MORE

Swingers Definitions That Every Newbie Needs to Know

February 16, 2021Swingers Resourceslifestyle definitions, swinger definitions, swingers, swingers lifestyle, swingingswingersdotorgadmin

In the realm of swinging there are many covert terms that the average person might not fully be aware of. So, those starting out or who are planning to dabble in this alternative lifestyle will want to become privy to a few key swinger definitions to get more familiar with the scene.

Swingers: People who take pleasure in swapping or sharing their intimate partner with one or more individuals outside the primary relationship. Swingers set their own limitations and boundaries.

The Swingers Lifestyle: The term swingers lifestyle refers to the alternative lifestyle known as swinging. However, it can describe sex-positive persons of an open mind to partner sharing or swapping.

Vanilla: Swingers use the term vanilla to describe individuals who are traditionally monogamous and that have sext that doesn’t involve acts that deviate from the norm such as BDSM, orgies, etc.

Unicorn: Considered unusual and often rare, unicorns are single women open to swinging. Many couples seek out these ladies when first dabbling while others prefer unicorns due to their openness and lack of desire for full-time relationships. Bulls are single male swingers.

Playmates: Playmates is a term used to describe swingers that you engage with in ‘playtime’ which involves whatever sexual activities the partners choose.

Voyeurism: Those who enjoy watching others have sex with the consent of the participants are engaging in what is called voyeurism.

Soft Swap: Soft swapping swingers don’t engage in full-blown intercourse but rather limit activities with others to heavy petting, oral sex and kissing.

Full Swap: A full swap is when penetrative sex occurs with swinger playmates.

Closed Door Swinging: Closed door swinging describes couples who swap partners in separate rooms for sexual activities.

Same Room Swinging: This is when those in the alternative lifestyle share a room or space for their soft or full swap playtime.

Polyamory: Individuals who say they are in an open relationship might be into polyamory, which is when a couple doesn’t expect monogamy from their partner. However, rather than simple casual flings, polyamorous groups are more often long-term relationships with mutual love and respect. It’s not the same as swinging, and poly couples often live together as ‘families’ with a third person or other committed couple.

Hotwife: A hotwife is a married or committed woman who has the permission of her partner to have sex with other men. Typically, the ‘hubby’ enjoys watching and in some cases may join in. There are also hot-husbands, as well filling the reverse role.

Cuckold: When a man ‘complies’ with his partner’s sexual engagements with other men while watching and getting pleasure from it, he is called a cuckold. This can also be used to describe men who love to be dominated by their woman. Females in this situation are called cuckqueens.

MMF vs MFM: In the realm of threesomes an MMF is a male-male-female grouping in which the two men will have sex. MFM is a male-female-male threesome positions the woman in the middle because the men will only have sex with the woman.

FMF/FFM: Threesomes in which a female-male-female (FMF) occurs with no female interaction. FFM implies bisexual action between females.

The swingers lifestyle is a fun way to mix up the sex life of open-minded couples, so these are only the beginning basics of swinger definitions that you’ll learn as you gain experience in the lifestyle.

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Best Adult Books for Swingers Couples During Quarantine

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Being in quarantine is a reality check for many people around the world, leaving millions of us bored at home including swingers. Television and Internet perusing gets old after a while, so we want to suggest some great adult books with sex stories that revolve heavily around swinging.

Whether you’re just interested, are polyamorous, married, bi, gay, straight or a swinging single, there are many great reads to occupy your time and get your mind in a sexy place, too.

Determining What You Want in a Second Male Partner

Are Appearances Important to You?

Do You Prefer Gentle or Passionate Lovers?

Do You Want Some Kinky BDSM Action?

Should the Man Be Bisexual or Straight?

Do You Want Someone to Talk & Flirt with You & Your Partner?

Additional Planning Concepts

Make the Night One To Remember

What Is Voyeurism?

4 Ways to Practice Voyeurism In the Lifestyle

1. Observe Your Partner Masturbating

2. Watch a Bit of Live Video Porn

3. Role Playing

4. Watch Your Partner Be Intimate With Someone Else

Places to Indulge in Voyeuristic Fantasies

Do Some Initial Research

Avoid Excessive Drinking

Avoid Being a Fly on the Wall

Don’t Be Afraid to Separate

Ready to Get Swinging?

Head for the Rear…But Don’t Forget the Rest of the Body

Hands, Paddles & Whips…Oh My!

Mix It Up: Alternate Between Spanks, Rubs & Squeezes

Really Want to Know How Your Sub Gets Their Pleasure?

Keeping Your Identity a Mystery Until Sharing Feels Right

Protecting Email Accounts and Phone Numbers

Preventing Images From Doxxing Your Info

Pre-Screening Partners

Measure the Chemistry Level

Don’t Feel the Need to Rush Into a Hotwife Relationship

Be Spontaneous, But Do So Safely

Use Your Intuition

Bypass Sexual Insecurities

Jealously is Surpassed in Swinging

Swinging Can Boost Confidence

Curb Cheating In An Intimate Relationship

Excitement Strengthens Relationship Bonds

Top 5 Adult Books For Erotic Stories