There are many in the swingers lifestyle are already living out one or most of their sexual fantasies. Trying new scenarios like BDSM, cuckolding, hotwifing and group sex at playtime can fulfill certain unrealized swinger fantasies. When partners open up about their deepest fantasies, they can discuss exploring these thrilling experiences and interactions. Once you have a discussion about the possibilities and come to an agreement about engaging in your sexual fantasies, it’s just time to make those dreams come true.
Common Swinger Lifestyle Fantasies
For those who are into swinging, common fantasies vary depending on their desires and the scenarios they want to explore. One of the most commonly fulfilled swinger lifestyle fantasies involves partner swapping or having multiple groupings.
Bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism (BDSM) are lifestyle fantasies many swinger couples tend to explore. BDSM has a wide range of acts, which adds to its allure. Many like the idea of being submissive and restrained and/or spanked while some prefer the dominant role where they take charge of disciplining their lovers. This is appealing to those who desire a combination of power dynamics, control and consensual pain during sexual experiences.
Adventures involving sexual novelty practices might appeal to beginning swingers and more experienced couples would venture into more taboo areas such as anal play, outdoor sex or exhibitionism. Everyone has their starting point for expanding their sex life and losing their inhibitions through making fantasies a reality.
Reality vs. Fantasy When Swinging
While many people get excited by the allure and enjoyment that’s possible in swinger fantasies, the transition from reality to fantasy and vice versa is a complex, fine distinction. Just taking fantasies about swinging into real life can be challenging, and mandates solid communication and honest dialogue. This is the key to discussing expectations and boundaries.
The Psychological Role of Living Out Fantasies
In the realm of sexual gratification and personal fulfillment, fantasies play a key role, especially in the swinging community. Using your imagination when considering fantasy scenarios ensures that you have a better chance of heightened sexual pleasure.
Looking at exploring fantasies from a psychological viewpoint indicates that fulfilling them has several benefits. One of those perks is that partners tend to have greater intimacy and a stronger emotional bond between them as they delve into fantasies and share them with each other.
Swinger Fantasies Are Therapeutic
It may sound surprising, but acting on sexual fantasies can be a form of therapy that alleviates stress and other psychological blockages. For example, BDSM fantasies can indicate a need for control or to submit to another, yet it can be a sign of the need to feel desired and gain approval. Group sexual fantasies may reflect the desire to feel irresistible and a better than competent lover.
Turn Fantasies Into an Active Part of Your Sex Life
Because swingers engage with other partners outside their primary relationship, they have more opportunities to live out fantasies compared to vanilla couples. Step beyond societal norms to enjoy your unique desires for a satisfying sexual journey that increases intimacy and lets you and your partner better understand yourselves and each other.
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